Recent content by InsightFireNightJail

I am starting settle on the same idea, that opposite types are more exciting and explosive to me, but ultimately it's unsustainable because in the hard times there is such a disconnect.

Hey, very awesome replies everyone! A more than half disagreed with the overall sentiment of my post. I got a few straight up agrees privately and I also got my reputation knuckles whacked for "my poor taste." All fair takes on my post. I was still a little bummed to have it taken as bad...

This seems like a totally reasonable thing to address. Other than the people who have an INFJ in their life and are looking for answers, why are there so many non-INFJs as regular posting members here? Especially perplexing is when one of the threads of the form "Does anybody else...

^INTP rabble rouser

Sonyab, this is the ideal I strive for sure but I can't seem to get the "let it go" part right in practice. When the other person doesn't want to work it out, it really floors me. How can they NOT want to work it out, you know? This idea of guilt as a manifestation of perceived perfection...

So.... When you end up making a mistake in a relationship (romantic or friend) are you quick to want to "set it right"? If it is a big enough mistake and you can't really fix it easily, do you feel super guilty? Do you hate to have people mad at you? For me: yes, yes, and yes. I guess...

When I leave people voicemails I find myself "getting my game face on" and trying to project this other voice which isn't really my natural voice. I feel like a toolbar when I catch myself doing it.

I read books at night before I go to bed. For awhile now I'll have going a fiction novel, a non-fiction or academic book, and some kind of spirituality/psychology/figure-myself-out book. I pick the one I feel like reading that night but I usually read the same one for several nights in a row...

I have had so few, it is hard to really characterize. With one of them, years apart and even years not talking, and when we do talk it is the same as it was. I think we just have similar mental organization. We also have a pretty good dose of thinking the same sorts of superficial things are...

Thanks for replies Hey, thanks for the replies. I am pretty amped now to find out the type of every good friend I have ever had. I made the last girl I was dating (who I am now just being friends with) take the test the other day, and she was ESFP. We had a great, fun connection but I did...

Thanks. Me too.

Hey. So, i'm new here. Took the MBTI 4 months ago at my therapists request and when I scored INFJ, she didn't really clue me into what that might mean. She focused on the introverted part, but I was already well aware of my introversion so I just dismissed it, thinking "alright, I still don't...