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I have a few instances in my life where someone I love has and still does, have a massive discrepancy in what they say I am and who I really am. My brother thinks I'm a liar, narcissistic and a Debbie downer. I actually don't think I'm any of those things. I've gone to therapy and we worked...

To me these are ridiculous questions - technology cannot replace humans for intimacy and love. Maybe companionship, even affection. But the ultimate bond between 2 humans is around the unique and undefinably complex human condition, around life and death, around the feelings we both experience...

Wouldn't that be a masochist?

I love fashion and usually try to be stylish and on-point. When I am undergoing life transformations I tend to experiment with a new look. For example, initially after I got divorced I wore jeans and T-shirts every day. Then I dressed crazy stylish: sometimes rock and roll, sometimes more...

Sociopaths are missing something. To me, mental illness is when something is not working correctly. There is no treatment for sociopaths, unlike most mental illnesses. I think calling it a mental illness is adding to the confusion of the Sherlocks and whatnot as being cool. They are not...

"Normal" is the middle of the week, so Wednesday. Normal is not abnormal. Normal is not disturbing or disruptive to most normal people. Normal is the 50's, a mirage, a trick of the eye. Normal is sunny skies and 75 degrees. Normal is what I have never felt. Normal is feeling the full range of...

Your score from primary psychopathy has been calculated as 1.2. Primary psychopathy is the affective aspects of psychopathy; a lack of empathy for other people and tolerance for antisocial orientations. Your score from secondary psychopathy has been calculated as 2.3. Secondary psychopathy is...

Yes, thank you, that helps. It gives me food for thought on the time away aspect.

I am an INFJ who has been with an ENFJ for 6 months. He came on strong and loving in the beginning, but recently expressed some doubts about our relationship. He feels like I am all in and he says he's not feeling like I'm the one. He doesn't know whether he is capable of deep love or not...

Thanks for sharing the article. The new book out, 'Quiet', discusses in depth how society has come to devalue introverts and how the facts paint a different picture than perception in many cases. It's a fun read....the chapter about Tony Robbins, whom the book calls a mega-extrovert and the...

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ENTPs can be overbearing to an INFJ and the INFJ would never tell you out of wanting to avoid hurting feelings. The company can be delightful. Things can be understood without speaking. My ENTP friend always wants MORE everything and this appetite is both compelling and annoying. Life is...

I have a very smart ENTP male friend. He chooses not to date right now, but I've always thought he won't have any problem dating once he decides to. I've read though that ENTPs have a hard time picking 1 woman, they tend to like quite a few. Also I think my friend could get bored in a...

I just have to say, I was really into mbti matching until I met my supposed match and had the worst date of my life. He was ENFP and he was unbelievably rude, it was awful.So don't put too much weight in this stuff, ha!