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    [INFJ] Sharing your Fantasy World

    I once had a friend ask me point blank about it, so I told her some snippet of what I was imagining. I have NO idea what she was thinking, though I felt AWKWARD and embarrassed. I got a vibe of shock and surprise from her, but that could very well be my own embarrassment talking. I was so...
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    Understanding the INFJ Doorslam

    Great thread! I have one more thought to add to the milieu. I have door slammed a few times and for me, there had been months (and sometimes years) in each relationship where I had fought and maneuvered and striven to do everything I could think of to "fix" it. With each, there came that...
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    Most drama-free type

    Funny, I think ESFPs have the most drama out of any type, across the board!
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    Trying to figure out this guitar song

    Are you talking about "Kiss from a Rose"? I think it's by Seal...
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    What's the Most Romantic Thing Anyone Has Ever Said to You?

    One day in Biochemistry, I showed up late, but since the teacher was later, the guy next to me had time to talk. He started complaining about my sense of time and how could I be late when I was clearly wearing a watch and had a brain... it was all said lightheartedly though.... I told him...
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    J vs P differences

    Haha, and that's probably why so many "INFJ"s are saying, "but I sound like a P"... If you're into simple explanations, I can afford one from LOTS of personal experience: J's need structure, P's don't. To be more specific, there always has to be some kind of a plan for a J, but not for a P...
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    So confused.

    I don't think SHE was the one who thought up what she was saying, I think someone at her church told that to her and she repeated it to you... The verse in Matthew comes from a context of Jesus telling people what to look for when he is coming again. BUT: there are many christians (though I...
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    INFJ:Fantastic Brain Healers but Terrible Psychologists

    I think the big problem with an INFJ being a psychiatrist has to do with the fact that the whole medical field is an apprenticeship type profession: you go through school, you do a residency (i.e. the shadow day from hell that lasts for years), you take tests and more tests and more tests and...
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    1 Like 1 Dislike.

    Like: they solve problems Dislike: that one stupid mistake that throws the whole thing off The Millennium Falcon
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    hey look guys, i'm psychic.

    And what does it mean if you do this in your head all the time?...
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    Thinking Style Inventory Quiz

    CR 33 AR 25 CS 24 AS 18 So... basically, my thoughts are random :)
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    Are Platonic Relationships a Myth?

    This exact situation has happened to me several times now. In fact, the only way I don't lose my male friends when they marry is if I find a way to have a relationship with the wife to the point where she and I are friends AS WELL AS him and I... I feel your pain AlienSpectator. I had one...
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    Manipulation: Morally right or wrong?

    Strangers enticing in general seems "out of place" to me except in those psychological thrillers... or the Pied Piper... Creepy!... I agree with the authority comment though. I think the tricky part comes when people believe they should, or get, to have some kind of authority in someone else's...
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    Manipulation: Morally right or wrong?

    Good Point! That is a problem... Who gets to decide what's necessary?
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    Manipulation: Morally right or wrong?

    No, no, that makes sense... I'm just wondering at what point in that you start forcing your morals on others... It makes sense that you have the best intentions, doing these things "for their own good", but ultimately, you are deciding what's good for them... If you apply that principal across...
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