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    Do you treat other people worse as you get emotionally close to them?

    Ok....You're getting too ahead of yourself. This isn't a serious problem. Like I said, it isn't "asshole"-like, it's just less nice. I have normal relations with people including my family. It's just a random, social-related thought. I don't actually have a problem. Sheesh.
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    Do you treat other people worse as you get emotionally close to them?

    Makes sense. I wish I could treat people more equally. Ah....I see. Recommendation : Not getting too ahead of yourself. Aw, thanks. I really agree about always being nice to the people who are 'bonded' to you. It's such a hard thing to do. Yes, we're taking them for granted just...
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    Do you treat other people worse as you get emotionally close to them?

    No, I don't think so. I can't relate to this.
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    Do you treat other people worse as you get emotionally close to them?

    I do. I don't know why. It seems like it should be the opposite. That the more you're familiar or closer to someone, you would treat them better, but for some reason I treat strangers much more kindly than my mom or my siblings. The moment when I become "friends" with someone, I become an...
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    Socialize naturally(w/o much self-direction) but limitedly or socialize actively?

    But then you used words like "does not always" and "sometimes", can you give a percentage of importance to differentiate conversational and silent communication? I would say conversational 90% and silent 10%.
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    Socialize naturally(w/o much self-direction) but limitedly or socialize actively?

    I respectfully disagree. I've lived with individuals who I have not frequently conversed with although I am frequently in their presence and by the end of the 3rd year of us living in the same household, I barely felt connected to them. I barely even knew them and they barely even knew me. By...
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    Socialize naturally(w/o much self-direction) but limitedly or socialize actively?

    What if the point was to increase the your connection/rapport with another person? That's interesting. I haven't thought about the meaning of "awkwardness"... It's not that you don't want to leave your head, it's whether you leave your head consciously or you wait for the go signal of a less...
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    Socialize naturally(w/o much self-direction) but limitedly or socialize actively?

    I think you have just greatly upgraded my entire life. Thank you so much. I didn't realize I had that stigma. And I realize It's so true. What an enlightening thing!
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    Socialize naturally(w/o much self-direction) but limitedly or socialize actively?

    You know those moments when you're in an awkward conversation with someone and you could either consciously choose to say something or let the awkward atmosphere to continue? Those moments are moments where you are hyper-conscious of the situation. Now, how about a daily chit-chat with a very...
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    When is the right time to get angry?

    This is the kind of response i was hoping for. First of all, why the stress on figuring out what has made you feel an intense emotion? Do emotions really work as simple as "cause and effect?" Don't people always know why they're angry? Or do they always have to ask themselves why they're...
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    When is the right time to get angry?

    Oops, I meant at "someone" not "sometime." I have this dualistic perspective when there's conflict. I always think that there's "good guy" and that there's a "bad guy." I think like this because I recognize that someone has to be right if not righter. If I get angry unjustifiably or because of a...
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    When is the right time to get angry?

    So basically, the only time you should get angry is when you want to get motivated?
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    When is the right time to get angry?

    Most of the time when I get mad and I use that anger to react to sometime, it ends horribly. I end up regretting releasing my anger for something that I haven't thought well enough. When I get angry because I felt offended by what someone said or did, i end up taking the "wrong side." I become...
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    Circle causal. The very core truth of this universe.

    Circle causal. The very core truth of this universe.
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    They're reminders for myself. Made. Made cRyptic so only i could get them.

    They're reminders for myself. Made. Made cRyptic so only i could get them.