Recent content by Carola

To me what you describe as intelligence could be related to Pe functions more than the generic '' N''. Then I have a question : what is exactly meant with '' development'' of a function?

When i see something that to me is unfair , i don't want to be part of it. I will do things differently and i will preserve my integrity.I think that to me it is more important to not ''gieve up'' to how things are than integrity itself. Usually it is not only a matter of integrity i...

Could the will to be not influeced by others ,the will to go against what they said (or a least trying to be indipendent from that) be part of that ''invasion '' of the mental space of which you talk about in this post ?Is that a likely consequence of being Ni dominant and the consequent refuse...

I guess it could be a mixture as well , because lately that's stronger even if these events are not all actual. Thanks for the food for thought anyway.

I think i cared , but not this way.I was far more self centred i guess. Now i'm more ''soft'' with others.Maybe i've to consider that there were some changes in my life and some (somewhat hurting) experiences as well that make this thing stronger.

Recently it is stronger i guess.I have an attitude to think about what others think about me and how i have affected them , feel guilty (of impriopriety , or in general mistakes) and things like that.It happens also when i've been in the center of the attention of a group or of a single person...

Yes you're right.I looked to functions as a curiosity... Of course i have to solve this.Thanks a lot for your sweet and deep words :-)

I would like to ask to you which functions could be involved in this ... I often make actions and then if i think that i could have been hurting , disturbing , unfair i over-think about it ... And i think what could others think about it , if they are disappointed.And i feel so much guilty...

I 'm not who i appear , i think that others could misunderstand me and think that i'm better than i am. Then i don't trust myself so much... I know , i've strange fears...

I have a great fear to hurt others , so i would like to avoid that they love me too much... Anyway yes , i'm selective because of that too , sometimes i think that something can be supported only by few people.

Why so many INFJ are not confortable with expressing feelings ? Is it for the emotional ''power'' that this things have , for the Fe that make this situationan difficult to handle(too mich intense)? Could it be?If not...Why? To me the reason , i guess, is that ( too strong emotional atmosphere )

Yes i understand what you mean . For the same reason i don't like when people geet each other with kisses. Kiss is a serious thing , to me, full of meaning ,that i give with great difficulties and only when i deeply love the person

Why is it nonsense? I think that i have to express love with my actions, words sometimes are misleading , and then i find difficult to say it, anyway. Anyway i know that i should say it sometimes because people need to hear it .

We all share every neurological process , i guess that cognitive differences and preferences could be related to the development or greater usage of the processes involved .

I do the same thing as you said.But a little differently. If i talk a lot with a person i will assume his same verbal or facial expressions ( even while talking to another person) . And it is unconcious (and when i notice it , that make me laugh a lot ! :D). I don't know if i do the same even...