Recent content by beaze

Is it depression? Like a lower grade depression?

Do you ever feel wholly blank? I can equate this to “the great round” study of the mandala, as “the void”. I have no opinions on anything that I feel particularly keen on sharing, I have no specific wants/needs/desires/fears. I feel calm and peaceful, and blank. Open, observant, listening...

I relate to this a lot. I could live there on my own. He wants to live far away. We did work it out and have planned how we will use the space I just have other concerns now!

Well, we are pretty good at working things out. Leaves room for more pressing matters, like, is this the right thing?

I feel like there’s no middle ground?

No? What? I’m wondering how people work through this issue

How does one decide where to live with an SO if one person wants to stay in their current location (a very expensive city) for the foreseeable future and if the other wants to move away to a small town (affordable and tiny).

Yes, host. lol. What is the reason for my over complication? Related to mbti or something else ? I did look at our love languages. We have some overlap.

Also, how does an ISTP feel loved

Ok, and from that perspective, what would love mean to an ISTP, or is that more based on the individual?

Can you give me some examples of an outward expression of love?

How can you know if an ISTP loves you? I have an ISTP boyfriend he has said he loves me. He has practically moved in, and he hasn’t had a girlfriend in something like 11 years. That said we still fight sometimes and recently he said sometimes he wonders if he should still be here with me or...

I... I’m really real. I know who I am now!!! I’m INFJ! *cries* it’s true! It’s really true!!!

In my life, I will not make the compromises I’ve made again for anyone. I don’t know if it’s because I’m an Infj or because of trauma, but I can tell you I compromised the wrong things.

I’ll give this more of a reply if I remember. I wanted to say something relevant though, as introverts it’s hard to be extroverted. We are at our BEST when we are able to be our intuit self AND our extroverted feeling self, meaning we really must interact with others and share with others in...