Wistfully Beautiful

[CONSTANTLY_THINKING]

Do you find yourself drawn to sad things, like professionals say INFJs are?

I think that it's not really sad things in general, but our tendencies to overthink things makes us see some things as sad and depressing, yet beautiful at the same time. For instance, I'm drawn to chain smokers because I think it's so depressingly gorgeous to find pleasure in a habit that slowly takes your life away from you. I'm especially drawn towards the steriotypical "bad boy" image of tough, rude men who have a bad background and turn to smoking, perhaps as a way to help hide their damaged soft side.

Sorry, cheesy much? Anyway, tell me what you think and what you're drawn to!

 

[Sriracha]

Graveyards; however I don't find them sad. :shrugs:

 

[jyrffw54]

I'm also drawn to graveyards, I find them peaceful...and I find funerals just plain beautiful.


And as for your second part [MENTION=4504]CONSTANTLY_THINKING[/MENTION] : YES YES and YES!

 

[kucala]

Yes.

 

[randomsomeone]

Beauty can be found all around, in the obvious places as well as the less obvious. I don't gravitate more towards one than the other, but I don't avoid one more than the other either. Whether staring at the heavens or staring into the abyss....it's all conected to me.