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Where can I find ESTPs?!

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    I've been searching for ESTP-INFJ relationships online and reading stories from those who are INFJ/ESTP and it feels like reading fanfic lol



    Which comes to the question, where can I find an ESTP and how do I snag one?! However, I'm currently talking to one online but just want to find one irl.
     
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    They are out in the world doing all the things.
    So step one, go outside.
     
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    My immediate family. There's 3 of them. Take a pick. :tearsofjoy:

    In all seriousness.
    They're quite eclectic with their tastes, you might find them at any of the following:
    Wineries, wine tasting.
    At the beach,
    Camping,
    4WDriving,
    Fishing somewhere,
    At a wine bar,
    Possibly in the history section at the bookstore,
    Sky diving,
    Scuba diving/whale diving etc,
    At the gym,
    Getting a coffee,
    Eating out,
    Shooting/hunting,
    Just being outside and adventurous in general.
    Or just come to Australia. :tearsofjoy:

    They can either look under-dressed for some places, or neatly dressed.
    Charming, friendly and larikin like.
     
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    I have an ESTP friend. He is awesome!! Prior to COVID, he was traveling the world. Any place busy and active with lots of sensory stuff, sports/athletics, eating, drinking, dancing, music venues...
     
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    You can find them doing sports, in the army, in show business, in 'regular' business, in politics and in emergency medicine.

    (Please don't put yourself in the ER just to meet one, lol.)
     
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    I agree with Wyote, @Miro. This is going to take a lot of going outside! If there is an exciting event near where you live, attend it. Or, at a party, introduce yourself to the person who has the exciting ideas they're trying to convince other people to join in on.

    I'd also focus on what you're going to bring to the table for an ESTP.
     
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