Is that the thing? you ask a question then shoot down the suggestions? Those are the 2 most used sites I know of, I guess you can PAY money for match or eharmony and not meet anyone. you get out what you put in.
Hey, there are a few more free ones out there, but they may not be as popular (might be a good thing). I know that www.projectevolove.com had pretty in depth psychology and matching based on enneagram instincts and mbti. I say the op give that a try.