Matty
Permanent Fixture
- MBTI
- Intj
Reading a thread which described someone's resentment towards successful or lucky people, the sentiments of "fair" and "unfair" were raised a few times.
Elsewhere I often encounter people expressing the sentiment, "that's not fair", when someone is attractive, well endowed, wealthy, successful, etc.
I think my brain is wired to assess potential and paths to achieving it, and not so much to assessing present outcomes, so I seldom register the notions of fair and unfair. The closest I come is in terms of whether contracts (even implicit ones) have been fulfilled.
Anyhow, I could do some reading and thinking about it on my own, but I enjoy the insights of dominant intuitives. Please share some insights with this clueless INTJ, and jot down some thoughts about what fair and unfair mean to you.
Elsewhere I often encounter people expressing the sentiment, "that's not fair", when someone is attractive, well endowed, wealthy, successful, etc.
I think my brain is wired to assess potential and paths to achieving it, and not so much to assessing present outcomes, so I seldom register the notions of fair and unfair. The closest I come is in terms of whether contracts (even implicit ones) have been fulfilled.
Anyhow, I could do some reading and thinking about it on my own, but I enjoy the insights of dominant intuitives. Please share some insights with this clueless INTJ, and jot down some thoughts about what fair and unfair mean to you.