I am married to an absolutely wonderful INFJ woman… when we were courting and then engaged we had deep connection with one another (the S part of me didn’t really consciously know this, I just knew I was in love with her, but my wife says she had this with me)… but over the years of marriage and life we have lost most of that connection we had with one another early on… we both recently took the MB personality profile tests, and I soon discovered what a rare personality treasure my wife is (the 1%)!
Being an ISTJ (which I understand parts of us can absolutely annoy the hell out of an INFJ) I am on a mission to understand what this ‘deep connection’ means to her and try to meet my wife at that deep intimate place within her core… being an N my wife knows what a deep connection means to her but she can’t really explain it to me… the gap between N and S is a large one! So I stumble across this website dedicated to INFJs, and what better place could there be to try and understand my wife? You INFJs are outstanding with the written word, my wife is truly a gifted writer and I am sure many of you on here are as well…
I would really appreciate it if you could try to explain to this pathetic ISTJ what a deep intimate connection is to an INFJ… thank you! and, what parts of the ISTJ annoy you to no end (no worries, I can take it, I will not be confrontational about it :humble: )
Being an ISTJ (which I understand parts of us can absolutely annoy the hell out of an INFJ) I am on a mission to understand what this ‘deep connection’ means to her and try to meet my wife at that deep intimate place within her core… being an N my wife knows what a deep connection means to her but she can’t really explain it to me… the gap between N and S is a large one! So I stumble across this website dedicated to INFJs, and what better place could there be to try and understand my wife? You INFJs are outstanding with the written word, my wife is truly a gifted writer and I am sure many of you on here are as well…
I would really appreciate it if you could try to explain to this pathetic ISTJ what a deep intimate connection is to an INFJ… thank you! and, what parts of the ISTJ annoy you to no end (no worries, I can take it, I will not be confrontational about it :humble: )