Lerxst
Well-known member
- MBTI
- INFJ
I think a lot of NF's enter this field being too idealistic about it and what they can accomplish. I was brought up with very NT leanings despite my true nature. At some point, in my head, a certain "self preservation switch" clicks on and I just stop caring about people. I believe in that saying, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink:" and that's how I have to handle situations in this field (Yes, I have tried it in the past).Teach them how to do things, show them right from wrong, but I don't believe in "babying" people for months on end - after that, I believe in Darwinism...
Social work really is a field that people burn out in. As an INFJ, I might point out that "J" standing out at the end. That part of us likes closure and organization. It likes to know a situation has a beginning, middle and end. Social working is an ongoing cluster-f*** of problems piled on top of more, endless problems. I don't feel it's a natural state of a person, especially with our pesky need for closure, to be subjected to throughout their careers.
Social work really is a field that people burn out in. As an INFJ, I might point out that "J" standing out at the end. That part of us likes closure and organization. It likes to know a situation has a beginning, middle and end. Social working is an ongoing cluster-f*** of problems piled on top of more, endless problems. I don't feel it's a natural state of a person, especially with our pesky need for closure, to be subjected to throughout their careers.