Don't get me wrong, I do find it annoying a lot of times but I try to put others ahead of my annoyance. What I find annoying is annoying to me and it really can't be helped... it's not like I want to be annoyed by things.
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Don't get me wrong, I do find it annoying a lot of times but I try to put others ahead of my annoyance. What I find annoying is annoying to me and it really can't be helped... it's not like I want to be annoyed by things.
Very interesting thread this is developing into!
The reason I brought this up has a lot to do with the Ni/Ti closed loop. I wasn't referring to small talk, per se (although it could be!) but ANY talk, really. Talking about ideas, Te, puts a large burden on INFJs, in my view. The introverted world has such an integral structure that is so alive and complete (or we'd like to think so) that to "JUST talk" about it is practically an invasion.
Not the mere act of talking about ideas but rather how ideas and words are perceived by different people.
As far as I understand, Te is much more akin to "brainstorming and problem solving" whereas Ti is going to have an integral thought process that is integrated, organized and basically "locked away".
So a person with Te might be much more open to discussing ideas than someone with Ti. But if you factor in Ni then the internal worldview gets even more profound.
So when someone says something to me, for example a suggestion, and I do not see that suggestion as fitting into my already constructed worldview- I have a hard time entertaining it. To which the person might reply "well it was just an idea"......and for some reason that statement is very difficult to grasp. I believe it's because of that very tight Ni/Ti. The idea either fits or it does not.
Yes maybe it is predominantly an Ni vs Ne thing? That actually makes more sense although I still wonder if our Ti doesn't make our Ni more closed. Hmm now I must go think
Did anyone else notice how the original poster put his type as "Infj" completely skipping any other system of capitalization such as acronyms? Careful you don't stomp on his feels too hard else we might have another pseudo intellectual on our hands. And what terrible mess that is when they start progressing the discussion toward the notion of "but words are made up and imaginary".
Now if anyone wishes to take up such a foolish notion then I have a solution for you! You can volunteer to make new words by whipping their utterances out of you. Lets see what pitches those vocal cords can hit and fine tune a new dialect out of the inhumane screams of raw unfiltered emotion. Just imagine if Jack the Ripper wrote Webster's dictionary!
Ti and Ni don't interact? I don't understand.
So in other words they do interact.
Did anyone else notice how the original poster put his type as "Infj" completely skipping any other system of capitalization such as acronyms? Careful you don't stomp on his feels too hard else we might have another pseudo intellectual on our hands. And what terrible mess that is when they start progressing the discussion toward the notion of "but words are made up and imaginary".
Now if anyone wishes to take up such a foolish notion then I have a solution for you! You can volunteer to make new words by whipping their utterances out of you. Lets see what pitches those vocal cords can hit and fine tune a new dialect out of the inhumane screams of raw unfiltered emotion. Just imagine if Jack the Ripper wrote Webster's dictionary!