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  1. Scofield

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    Bonjour tout le monde!

    I hope you are all fine.

    Well I just found that topic and I must say that I think I know a little the subject.

    Actually, among my many projects I plan to launch coaching businesses.
    And one of them will deal with the subject of "dating". It will concern men AND women.

    I've read a lot of books, gathered a lot of articles from websites and I've studied this subject for almost 3 years now. (all the secrets of dating and of relationships in general)

    I'm still gathering the money (and the knowledge) I need to launch these businesses (slowly but surely ;) ) but...if you guys (girls or boys) have any question, even for curiosity, you can ask me the questions you want and I hope I can helps you answer your questions. ;)
     
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    isn't dating more of an experience field?
     
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    Are French people as good lovers as they say, or is it just a myth? :mrgreen:
     
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    To be honest, I hate dating. Two people coming together and all those expectations and judgments that are going on under the surface...it isn't much fun.

    What is the alternative to dating?
     
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    Like most fields, yes.
    The more you're in contact with girls, the more you're going to be at ease in future situations. It becomes easier and easier.
     
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    Well unfortunately I think all of those kind of things are just myths.

    But, who knows?
     
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    I think ther's no alternative actually.

    But I don't see dating the same way. Of, course for a lot of people, dating is about expectations and judgements. But, we have to make the partner have such a good time with us that she (or he) forgets his/her expectations and just enjoy.
    Besides, I advise to always quickly erase the "date" ambiance and just have a good time especially for the first date.

    For example, the dates always have to be almost decided at the last minute.
    You could call a girl and say "Hey! I'm going to shopping this afternoon to see if there's no nice shoes. Do you wanna go with me and have a wonderful afternoon or do you have something else to do?"

    I hope you see what I mean. Release all expectations ans judgements, just have fun with her (or "him" for the girls). We have to relax and to make her relax and ejoy.
     
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  9. Shai Gar

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    a stereotype based on language difference

    when an english person says i love you, it's meant intellectually.
    when a french person says i love you, it's body and mind
    when a russian person says it, it's body and soul and mind.

    compartmentalisation of words is what makes a society.

    I had a french lover once, she was very passionate, but then she was only french by nationality, she was racially a south pacific islander who was born and grew up in Marseilles. (not the lurker here). However the most passionate was an australian girl... I didn't actually have intercourse with the french girl because I couldn't keep my stupid mouth shut and had to ask her where in germany she was from...
     
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    So then what is the difference between dating and just hanging out?

    What about "hims" for "hims" and "hers" for "hers"? Do the dynamics change when it comes to gay dating? :mrgreen:
     
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