TheBlondest
Newbie
- MBTI
- INFJ
(WARNING: I fully realize that I am labeling types, and I don't care, I just want to get my thoughts out. So, please, non of the usual "but give the other types a chance" stuff. 
Thanks!)
...or they just think I'm stupid.
This seems unlikely. When I encounter another N I always put on my INTJ mask and refrain from exhibiting my budding romanticism as well as my creativity. This is partly due to having been labeled "dreamer" at a young age and thus never taken seriously and also due to an emotional and mental gutting by an ENTJ I dated when I was 20.
After the infatuation wore off, he began to pick me apart and start fights simply to rile me etc etc. It bordered on mental/emotional abuse. Eventually he dumped me on Facebook, citing that I was a CHILD. (Yeah). :evil:
Anywho, any ENFPs out there who find INFJ intimidating or repulsive due to our ability to make judgments or anything else?
I also find it difficult to get close to ENPF—consistently—with out scaring them away with comparable intellect or w/e. I just don't know, I've had very close female ENFP friends, until they went schitzo-affective on me. Seriously.
I also dated an ENFP when I was a freshman in college and he had mental issues, too; a model anger management candidate, possessive, controlling and smothering.
But I seem to frighten ENFP males and non-crazy ENFP females. Why?
In my experience, most ENFPs usually pick a new best friend every so often and that person is "the best ever!" But also in my experience some of these "best friends" or "best people" often reveal themselves as the most toolish scum creeping on Earth. ENFP remains unaware of this for a long time. :lalala:
Presumptuously, I consider myself a person of great integrity, I think that most INFJs would, however, I am beginning to recognize a pattern of sickening superficiality—a world where integrity is "too real" or "scary" and I just can't stand it.
out:
(Note: I've dated plenty of stable people, too). :nod:
Thanks!)...or they just think I'm stupid.
This seems unlikely. When I encounter another N I always put on my INTJ mask and refrain from exhibiting my budding romanticism as well as my creativity. This is partly due to having been labeled "dreamer" at a young age and thus never taken seriously and also due to an emotional and mental gutting by an ENTJ I dated when I was 20.
After the infatuation wore off, he began to pick me apart and start fights simply to rile me etc etc. It bordered on mental/emotional abuse. Eventually he dumped me on Facebook, citing that I was a CHILD. (Yeah). :evil:
Anywho, any ENFPs out there who find INFJ intimidating or repulsive due to our ability to make judgments or anything else?
I also find it difficult to get close to ENPF—consistently—with out scaring them away with comparable intellect or w/e. I just don't know, I've had very close female ENFP friends, until they went schitzo-affective on me. Seriously.
I also dated an ENFP when I was a freshman in college and he had mental issues, too; a model anger management candidate, possessive, controlling and smothering.
But I seem to frighten ENFP males and non-crazy ENFP females. Why?
In my experience, most ENFPs usually pick a new best friend every so often and that person is "the best ever!" But also in my experience some of these "best friends" or "best people" often reveal themselves as the most toolish scum creeping on Earth. ENFP remains unaware of this for a long time. :lalala:
Presumptuously, I consider myself a person of great integrity, I think that most INFJs would, however, I am beginning to recognize a pattern of sickening superficiality—a world where integrity is "too real" or "scary" and I just can't stand it.
out:(Note: I've dated plenty of stable people, too). :nod:
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