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How's your memory?

How do people remember stuff according to time, anyway?

I mean, for me memory is like a massive set of bins that stuff gets chucked into, and I need the right reference to locate a specific bin. But they're never arranged according to time unless I expressly cause them to be so.

In fact, the time and date is just a memory itself for me. It's hardly relevant to my activities so I never think about it unless necessary, so it never gets connected to things. Time and date are just numbers and one is stored in the "this is what time it is now" bin and the other in the "this is what date it is now" bin and I don't bother to recall them if I don't need to.
 
It's probably better than most people's. I still don't trust it. Unless you have a special kind of autism, memories are usually never completely accurate. I especially try to avoid idealizing things according to my memories.
 
I agree with previous statements, I have a great memory but horrible recall. My recall is quite arbitrary. Little things trigger memories that I forget that I have. One thing I have noticed though with my memory, is that if I can't remember where I was or place myself visually in the memory I can't remember what it was. I have a pretty great visual memory and I think I rely on it a dangerous amount.
 
I'm wondering if there is a relationship between the INFJ type and memory. More specifically, how vividly can INFJs recall past events and how are they organized?

I've often felt that I was behind others in the ability to recall the linear sequence of events in my past. It's more an organizational issue (lost pathway) than an encoding one because things come back relatively clearly when others jump start the process with details. My memory is usually very light on details and condensed to a core emotion or summarized to a main headline.

My past appears to be indexed by who I was *being* at that moment (brother, friend, bf, etc) and where within the development of that role I was. I can almost never answer the question 'what was your life like in [year]'...it's not chronological. I usually have to best guess the year or do some math.

This the case for anyone else out there?

I'm the same way. An example is when people ask me what my childhood was like. I say "I don't remember ever feeling unloved". I am the sum of experiences that I really have no detailed recollection of. When asked a very specific question, though, I can usually recall more.
 
I tend to remember numbers, and certain details pretty well
 
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Everyone has a photographic memory but most lack the film ;)
 
Visual memory is excellent; aural, not quite as good.I can remember faces and visual details from decades ago and yet cannot remember what conversation we had the day before yesterday!

Btw, I was reading about adaptation the other day and I think it might interest some of you. It's relevant to this topic:


http://www.bbc.com/future/story/20120508-why-your-brain-loves-to-tune-out/1
Adaptation: Why your brain loves to tune out

The human eye is capable of processing visual information far more quickly than any computer.

The
constant whir of a fan. The sensation of the clothes against your skin.
The chair pressing against your legs. Chances are that you were not
acutely aware of these until I pointed them out. The reason you had
somehow forgotten about their existence? A fundamental brain process
that we call adaptation.
Our brains are remarkably good at
cancelling out all sorts of constants in our everyday lives. The brain
is interested in changes that it needs to react or respond to, and so
brain cells are charged with looking for any of these differences, no
matter how minute. This makes it a waste of time registering things that
are not changing, like the sensation of clothes or a chair against your
body, so the brain uses adaptation to tune this background out,
allowing you to focus on what is new.
If you don’t believe me, try
this simple, but startling demonstration. First, hold your eyeball
perfectly still. You could use calipers to do this, or a drug that paralyses the eye muscles,
but my favourite method is to use my thumb and index finger. Using the
sides of your thumb and finger, press on the bone of the eye socket,
through your upper and lower eyelids. Do this gently. Try it with one
eye first, closing the other eye or covering it with your hand.
With
your eye fixed in position, keep your head still and soon you will
experience the strangest thing. (You will have to stop reading at this
point. I don't mind. We will pick up when you have finished). After a
few seconds the world in front of you will fade away. As long as you are
holding your eyeball perfectly still, you will very quickly discover
that you can see nothing at all. Blink, or move your head, let go of
your eye and the world will come back. What's going on?!
Now you see it…
For
all of our senses, when a certain input is constant we gradually get
used to it. As you are holding your eye still, exactly the same pattern
of light is falling on each brain cell that makes up the receptors in
the back of your eye. Adaptation cancels out this constant stimulation,
fading out the visual world. The receptors in your eye are still
processing information. They have not gone to sleep. They simply stop
firing as much, reducing the messages they pass on about incoming
sensations – in effect the message passed on to the rest of the brain is
"nothing new... nothing new... nothing new…". You can make your brain
cells spring into action by moving your eye, or by waving your hand in
front of your face. Your hand, or anything moving in the visual world,
is enough of a change to counteract the adaptation.
This sounds
like it could go badly wrong. What if I am watching something, or
someone, I am thinking hard about it, and I forget to move my eyes for a
few seconds. Will adaptation mean that thing disappears? Well, yes, it
could in principle. But the reason it does not happen in practice is due
to an ingenious work-around that the evolution has built into the
design of the eyes – they constantly jiggle in their sockets. As well as
the large rapid eye movements we make several times a second, there is
also a constant, almost unnoticeable twitching of the eye muscles that
means that your eyes are never absolutely still, even when you are
fixing your gaze on one point. This prevents any fading out due to
adaptation.

You can see this twitching when you look at a single point of light
against a dark background (such as a single star in the sky, or a
glowing cigarette end in a totally dark room). Without a frame of
reference your brain will be unable to infer a stable position of the
point of light. Every twitch of your eye muscles will seem like a
movement of the point of light (a phenomenon called the autokinetic effect).
Adaptation
is so useful for the brain's processing of information that it has been
kept by evolution, even in basic visual processing, and this extra
muscle twitching has been added in to prevent too much adaptation
causing problems for us. But the basic mechanism is still there, as my
eye experiment revealed.
Once you understand adaptation, you
discover that it is all around us. It is the reason people shout when
they come out of nightclubs (they have got used to the constant high
volume, so it does not seem as loud to them as it does to the people
they wake up on the way home). It is why a smell that might have hit you
as overpowering when you first enter a room can actually be ignored
after you've got used to it. And it is related to the phenomenon of word alienation,
whereby you repeat a word so often it loses its meaning. But most of
the time it operates quietly, in the background, helping to filtering
out the things that do not change, so that we can concentrate on the
more important tasks of those that do.
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My memories are the same way. They are like pictures of myself with some cocktail of emotions attached to them. I have very selective memory, which is a human trait but I think mine is more selective than normal. If it genuinely interests me, I will lock it in my brain like a steel trap and never forget it. I suck at remembering names, objects, words from a book, etc.. But I'm very good when it comes to understanding concepts. Often when I learn a new concept I will walk around for about two weeks seeing the world through the lens of that concept. By the time I exhaust myself the concept is engrained in my memory. So I'm very conceptual in my thinking, sometimes it can be a problem and steer me away from what is reality so I try to stay aware of that.