QuietlyBrilliant
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Hi,
This thread may seem somewhat superficial in comparison to the others on here, but it's just a small query of mine.
I'm currently in University and was just wondering how many dates do you need to have with a person until you've officially 'dated' them. I'm asking because I met this guy out in a club and ended up going back to his (nothing happened) and has his hoodie so had to meet up and we went on one date and then another after that. We have no plans to meet up in the future and don't think we will. If I'm honest, I feel like we only really clicked on the basis that we liked each other's looks (not surprising considering how we met), he was the whole 'captain of the rugby team, gym buff' type of guy and there just wasn't any emotional connection there.
Even though we've only met three times, I did go back to his twice (didn't sleep with him) and there was a lot of sexual chemistry (however, not much else).
So, do I call him a guy I've dated? Or just someone I met a few times? He definitely defined the times we met up as dates.
This thread may seem somewhat superficial in comparison to the others on here, but it's just a small query of mine.
I'm currently in University and was just wondering how many dates do you need to have with a person until you've officially 'dated' them. I'm asking because I met this guy out in a club and ended up going back to his (nothing happened) and has his hoodie so had to meet up and we went on one date and then another after that. We have no plans to meet up in the future and don't think we will. If I'm honest, I feel like we only really clicked on the basis that we liked each other's looks (not surprising considering how we met), he was the whole 'captain of the rugby team, gym buff' type of guy and there just wasn't any emotional connection there.
Even though we've only met three times, I did go back to his twice (didn't sleep with him) and there was a lot of sexual chemistry (however, not much else).
So, do I call him a guy I've dated? Or just someone I met a few times? He definitely defined the times we met up as dates.