I'm confused my state emotions right now.
1. I feel empathy to others but very briefly, like if I know someone is heading towards falling a cliff, if I didnt say anything I would feel guilty, however once I delivered my piece of mind about it, all of the feelings were instantly gone and i dont give a crap anymore about the outcome of that person. If they took my advice and avoid the cliff, then its good, if not, well, happy falling off a cliff.
2. I know what is right and wrong from the standard of my society, but, I created my own standard (and never felt any guilt before I crossed it) because I dont believe my society is "correct" even though they are the majority. If someone asked for my advice, I always have 2 sets of advices, the honest (my standard + dont care about others but myself) and polite (socially accepted or standard behaviour). However, I would never do something that let someone else getting hurt or at disadvantage because of my standard (well, not really, depends on the level of importance of the people and my limit of 'oh that's bad')
3. I cried often. I cried at siblings and best friend wedding, sad movies, at a bar when I see my best friend cheating at his wife, disappointed at who he is now, the path he took, etc etc, but it only lasted seconds or a minute and then I didnt feel sad any more. The feelings never lingered (Did I hide it somewhere?? but if something didnt affected me directly, I tend to not think about it)
What do you guys think? Am I an F or J?
*apologize for any grammar mistakes*
1. I feel empathy to others but very briefly, like if I know someone is heading towards falling a cliff, if I didnt say anything I would feel guilty, however once I delivered my piece of mind about it, all of the feelings were instantly gone and i dont give a crap anymore about the outcome of that person. If they took my advice and avoid the cliff, then its good, if not, well, happy falling off a cliff.
2. I know what is right and wrong from the standard of my society, but, I created my own standard (and never felt any guilt before I crossed it) because I dont believe my society is "correct" even though they are the majority. If someone asked for my advice, I always have 2 sets of advices, the honest (my standard + dont care about others but myself) and polite (socially accepted or standard behaviour). However, I would never do something that let someone else getting hurt or at disadvantage because of my standard (well, not really, depends on the level of importance of the people and my limit of 'oh that's bad')
3. I cried often. I cried at siblings and best friend wedding, sad movies, at a bar when I see my best friend cheating at his wife, disappointed at who he is now, the path he took, etc etc, but it only lasted seconds or a minute and then I didnt feel sad any more. The feelings never lingered (Did I hide it somewhere?? but if something didnt affected me directly, I tend to not think about it)
What do you guys think? Am I an F or J?
*apologize for any grammar mistakes*
