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[INFJ] Female ESTP male INFJ

Jun 23, 2015
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Hi guys, Genuinely would like to know your opinion on Male INFJ's with Female ESTP's.
I like a female ESTP at my college, and I think she likes me too, however, my lack of Se really prevents me from doing anything about it. She has actually initiated things, but I notice whenever she gets too into her Se, she sort of pulls back, as if to acknowledge the societal expectations woman are held to. The ironic thing is that the ESTP female is quite masculine and the male INFJ is quite feminine. I want nothing more than this woman. She's so strong, all I think about is her and we do have a noticeable strong connection when together. Only after falling for her, did I discover 'duality,' and from personal experience with her, I can personally attest to the validity of the theory.

Any advice on what I should do?
Have any male INFJ's landed a ESTP female?
What was it like? What problems did you encounter?
How did you help each other?


I want certainty, I can seriously see myself spending the rest of my life with her.

Thanks