knightchick007
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Hello. I have been dating the INFJ for the summer. We jumped into things very quickly and started dating officially dating for a month. Then he broke up with me and told me that he wasnt sure he got that "romantic feeling for me anymore". I was really upset... Then kept hanging out and he realized that he does like me because he got jealous of other guys liking me and he missed me.... So now he says I am off the market and he wants to be in a relationship with me without the label. Recently I realized that I am failling in love with him. I told him this recently, and he said thank you for telling me, and that he really likes me. I am confused. Do INFJs typically freakout when the l bomb is dropped? How do they react to this? Also how do I get him to open up to me more? How can I make this relationship work better being an ENFP, and how can I get him to understand me more?
Another question...what are some signs that could mean that an INFJ is falling in love?
Yes he has. I have met his parents sister and friends. After I told him I was falling I did say I am afraid of getting hurt and that I have to walk away from this because I am scared of him hurting me. And he got really upset and said that I was doing a great job of getting him to open up, and that I am stupid to run away from this and it is up to me what I want to do. I eventually said I wanted to stay with him.
Also. In a couple of weeks he is moving out of his family's house for the 1st time to go to college. We happen to be going to the same school. I am home for the summer but moving back in a couple weeks. He is terrified of leaving home and moving somewhere new.
Also. He was in love a couple years ago. Like deeply in love. She broke his heart, so since then he hasnt been able to be with anyone bc he is afraid of gettting hurt. So the past couple years he has learned to be independent emotionally.
What does this all mean??!