Triedandtrue
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- MBTI
- Enfp
I am a 33 year old enfp who dated a 30 year old infj for 2.5 years and it was long distance except for the first month of us dating before she had to move to Florida and I stayed in cali. I broke up with her this past January because I felt like I couldn't wait any longer to get tofether and possibly get married Dec 2017 but we kept in contact over the phone.
She was devastated and hurt and we sporadically stayed in contact but fit the past 2months we have been texting and talking everyday and I flew out too see her in September and she said it doesn't feel the same and I said okay but then she said she didn't want to lose me and I flew back to Cali and got mixed signals your another month when we finally got into an argument and she said she had nothing left to give. I feel crushed. She said basically we can stay friends but is there any way I can get her back after 10 months of being broken up.
The breakup was my fault and due to my depression and long dostance strain and mom tried to commit suicide but I think her idealismMay not allow her to give it a 2nd try or maybe we just need time apart because she did she wants to look at things with fresh eyes. Is it over?
She was devastated and hurt and we sporadically stayed in contact but fit the past 2months we have been texting and talking everyday and I flew out too see her in September and she said it doesn't feel the same and I said okay but then she said she didn't want to lose me and I flew back to Cali and got mixed signals your another month when we finally got into an argument and she said she had nothing left to give. I feel crushed. She said basically we can stay friends but is there any way I can get her back after 10 months of being broken up.
The breakup was my fault and due to my depression and long dostance strain and mom tried to commit suicide but I think her idealismMay not allow her to give it a 2nd try or maybe we just need time apart because she did she wants to look at things with fresh eyes. Is it over?