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    If she said she was a cluster B...beli bel her and walk away. It's going to be difficult. When she sees you doing this she will move heaven and Earth to get back. Then she'll drop you.

    It's trauma bonding. A total nightmare. You owe yourself much much more from life and relationships.
     
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    *Believe (typing on a busted phone.)
     
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    I believe her. She’s schizoid, so I guess that’s cluster A. So very antisocial and avoidant
     
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    That's still a very dark path to travel. I've been there more than once. One even went so far as to put me in jail on accusations of abuse. That's 5 months or my life gone. Everything I just rebuilt gone. I'm only left with scars on my face and head.

    See what I"m getting at. I know you want something with her. They can be captivating. That's their job. And you will feel compassion and use your natural desire to help the hurting. Eventually you will equate this with love. That's when she'll drag you into the abyss. Once you get there. It's going to be nearly impossible to tell where you end and she begins.

    The journey out of that pit will be long and hard. It will take a long time to stop feeling her darkness and return to your light.
     
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    Hey, you know, I had almost the same situation, when I was texting with a girl via dating site and you know, she was interested in me, but, after 2 weeks of intensive communication, she simply disappeared, and, a month later she answered, she doesn't want to communicate with me anymore, because I'm not confident in myself and I'm too childish in communication with girls and sent me the site with tips on how to communicate with Irish mail order brides... As she said, the tips from that site are universal and will let me learn how to behave with girls... I've never been so humiliated. However, frankly speaking, the tips really helped to understand women better
     
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    Wut?
     
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