Do you tend to find the meaning in everything? Are you obsessive or die hard about finding value or significance in things others dismiss? What fuels this need or desire to see relevance or reason in everything?
Do you tend to find the meaning in everything? Are you obsessive or die hard about finding value or significance in things others dismiss? What fuels this need or desire to see relevance or reason in everything?
My ex used to be like this and it made me kind of sick. I think because of that I stopped looking for meaning in anything on purpose.
Is there a difference?
There is something hidden in everything. Meaning is usually digging into what impacts you.
Agreed.
At least in my opinion, meaning is subjective. To the rest of the world, passing by a lone tree along a highway, they would just see a tree. To the loved one of someone who had crashed into the tree, they would see much more.
Things have the meaning and weight we give them. Without meaning, paper currency would be worthless. You could burn it, and it'd just be burnt paper. But it means something. You aren't just burning paper. You're burning a $100 bill, which you possibly worked quite hard for.
Things are only worth as much as we let them be worth.
Between assigning meaning to everything because you want to be over dramatic and manipulative vs not seeing significance/meaning/blah blah in everything? There's a difference.
Between trying NOT to find meaning in anything, just to prove something to yourself. Not everyone is manipulative or overly dramatic. People see what they see. Maybe you had a bad experience with someone?
Abusive relationship.
I guess you could call it bad.