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- MBTI
- INFPishy
I was thinking about this the other day. i thought i'd try to understand what it means we say we "like" or have feelings for someone. As an exercise, i thought about two or three people i've "liked" in the past, and tried to deconstruct what i felt. I think i came to realize that my liking in some cases weren't real feelings at all, just feelings of admiration, infatuation, appreciation, etc. Most of the time, it seems i projected feelings rather than experienced true "liking" for the person. In other words, i fell for an ideal, not the person.
So, my question is, what does it mean to "like" someone?
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Are you mostly feeling then thinking or thinking then feeling when you like someone?
So, my question is, what does it mean to "like" someone?
Not sure if there's another topic like this. If there is, someone can post the link.
Are you mostly feeling then thinking or thinking then feeling when you like someone?
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