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    How do you interact with people you can't stand, but are forced to interact with for whatever reasons? I try to remain polite, but I guess I am noticeably cold and distant. If I dislike someone intensely, I just want to avoid them because I can't even think of anything to say to them and I don't want to get dragged into their drama. This was part of the reason why I recently got fired from a job. How do you deal with people you dislike?


     
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    ^ i'm sorry you got fired from your job, and i can relate to not wanting to be in the presence of people whom you dislike. in a professional setting i can usually ignore how i feel about them personally and just try to get the job done as soon as possible. it's much more awkward in a more casual setting... in those situations i just bolt D:
     
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    Me too. I tried to do that, but apparently it doesn't work on psycho extroverts who demand that everyone smile constantly and laugh hysterically at their dumb jokes ggrrrr
     
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    eeep i'm sorry you had to go through that! maybe you shouldn't bend over backwards to accommodate such people, and should just find a place more tolerant of your introverted tendencies
     
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