Do you consider yourself a person that on the one hand is living an ok life and consider yourself fine, but on the other hand you attract or even gravitate towards on your own people who seem conflicted/lonely? Even the themes of movies/music/books etc. seem to be what some might consider deep or pertaining to the weightier matters of life. I use to assume that dark people were attracted to dark things and "happy" attracted to lighter things but from what I"ve experienced I no longer believe it. I thought maybe I was in denial and was actually sad. Now, however, I remembered that INFJs are the counselors.