My Fi is waaaaaaay too high. And Fe is working overtime to dial down my Fi - it's draining.
So, how do you find the right balance betwen Fi and Fe?
So, how do you find the right balance betwen Fi and Fe?
My Fi is waaaaaaay too high. And Fe is working overtime to dial down my Fi - it's draining.
So, how do you find the right balance betwen Fi and Fe?
So, if I am getting crazy perturbed in social situations and being overwhelmed by internal emotions, would you say that is an overactive Fi or a failure of Fi?
So, if I am getting crazy perturbed in social situations and being overwhelmed by internal emotions, would you say that is an overactive Fi or a failure of Fi?
wat exactly do you concider as your Fi and Fe, Res? In what way is Fi way to high and in what way is Fe doing overtime?
You have to stop yourself every time you feel your Fi taking over, then force yourself to stop and consider everyone else's feelings and needs, then put them ahead of your own. ...
The trick is convincing your Fi that this is what makes you a good person. After a while it will become reflexive.
mhm....
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may I suggest alcohol?
If I may chime in...in what way? Do you feel yourself suffering? Because if that's the case; Fi is right. But if you think Fi's just...whiny, then well; yeah.Pretty much as VH and NAI mentioned . . . Self vs. other dichotomy. Balancing the needs of self vs. the expectations of the social environment.
I can see your argument, and I personally agreed to a point, but personally, always putting Fe in the throne of Fi... cannot do well especially to INFJs whose natural function is Fe; because there's another function filling the role of Fi in your case; Ni; in this case, a sense of purpose.is it?? Does considering everyone elses feelings and needs over your own make you a good person?
it doesn't do it for me because I have tried that before and doing things for others out of Fe is all superficial and meaningless if Fi isn't backing it up.
But that's just me, maybe it works for you
is it?? Does considering everyone elses feelings and needs over your own make you a good person?
it doesn't do it for me because I have tried that before and doing things for others out of Fe is all superficial and meaningless if Fi isn't backing it up.
But that's just me, maybe it works for you
So, if I am getting crazy perturbed in social situations and being overwhelmed by internal emotions, would you say that is an overactive Fi or a failure of Fi?
i'm not sure. what's the real difference between Fe and Fi, anyway?