Are INFJ's "different" because lowkey we're really good people deep down inside?

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Xoroxyz

Xoroxyz

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All I've been hearing is how INFJ's need to learn how to defend themselves against over people, not give too much of themselves to other people. And the more I think about it I feel like they're trying to say that most people are just evil straight up and you have to know that and move accordingly because I once I kinda saw that in most people then everything really clicked for me.

And also, I might sound sexist for saying this but even in female INFJ's and their always superficial air to them or being fake and attracted to toxicity or nonchalantness in men (things that should not matter) even they have this like pureness about them that like switches on especially when I see a girl talk about INFJ. I have like this theory about women that they're like possessed by something like seriously that just makes them chaotic and love chaoticness even if they act like they don't, which is why at the same time you will hear them say something wholesome or thought provoking or meaningful and say I want to get married, I want kids, I want to save the world, stuff like that... The kinda volleying between demon and good girl I see happen with all women but with INFJ women I can clearly see that they're less possessed. I literally notice that. Like they just feel like pure hearted people deep down it's crazy..

But yeah I just wanted to touch on how it always seems that kinda like everyone else is npc's and INFJ's are like the heroes almost even if they've done bad things or do bad things, it's like I can feel that deep down inside they actually have a soul and is a good person where 9 times out of 10 most people you come across really are demons deep deep deep down inside and people might not want to hear it but some people in this world are really born evil and just can't stop doing it. I feel like all women are this way but it's like they be wrestling with the two sides of themselves, that's how I see it.
 
MBTI is about cognitive strengths and weaknesses. That's it.

Xoroxyz said:
And also, I might sound sexist for saying this but even in female INFJ's and their always superficial air to them or being fake and attracted to toxicity or nonchalantness in men (things that should not matter) even they have this like pureness about them that like switches on especially when I see a girl talk about INFJ. I have like this theory about women that they're like possessed by something like seriously that just makes them chaotic and love chaoticness even if they act like they don't, which is why at the same time you will hear them say something wholesome or thought provoking or meaningful and say I want to get married, I want kids, I want to save the world, stuff like that... The kinda volleying between demon and good girl I see happen with all women but with INFJ women I can clearly see that they're less possessed. I literally notice that. Like they just feel like pure hearted people deep down it's crazy..
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No. And this has nothing to do with MBTI or INFJs. Yes, it is misogynist, stereotypes women through a narrow lens, generalizes, and speaks about the limits of your experiences.

Xoroxyz said:
But yeah I just wanted to touch on how it always seems that kinda like everyone else is npc's and INFJ's are like the heroes almost even if they've done bad things or do bad things, it's like I can feel that deep down inside they actually have a soul and is a good person
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Hitler was an INFJ. He's the figurehead of bad people.
Pol Pot is also often categorized as an INFJ.
Political figures like Ruhollah Khomeini and Leon Trosky are also often categorized as INFJs.

Modern controversial figures who may be INFJs include Marilyn Manson and J. K. Rowling.


Xoroxyz said:
everyone else is npc's and INFJ's are like the heroes
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While I realize many people are attracted to the INFJ label because the type is categorized as "rare," this attitude feeds the ego and it's unempathetic. There are authentic, deep, philosophical, and intelligent people of ALL MBTI types. Other types are heroes, too, and not NPCs.

Xoroxyz said:
some people in this world are really born evil and just can't stop doing it. I feel like all women are this way but it's like they be wrestling with the two sides of themselves, that's how I see it.
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You need to heal from whatever damaged you and made you think "all women are born evil...." This is misogynist. It also has nothing to do with INFJs.
 
@Xoroxyz I’m afraid what you say doesn’t really make sense to me.

For example, people of INFJ type are introverts and that means we can be stressed out by too much socialising, as can any of the introverted types. We are also prone to opening up too much of ourselves to needy people and burning ourselves out emotionally as a result. These things don’t make others evil - it’s more to do with the way we instinctively relate to them, and how well we know and manage ourselves. Every type has strengths and weaknesses and so do we.

Some thoughts to play with on very little information about you …
The way you talk about women suggests you only know them from afar and maybe don’t have any easy relationships with sisters or female friends of all ages in your social circle? It’s so very hard to generalise in the way you did if you are on friendly terms with real people. Women and men are people first and their sex or gender is secondary - there are social differences of course but we are also very much alike. A problem with typecasting women is that it sets up a distorting lens within us that makes it hard to form good relationships with real folk.
 
Asa said:
MBTI is about cognitive strengths and weaknesses. That's it.



No. And this has nothing to do with MBTI or INFJs. Yes, it is misogynist, stereotypes women through a narrow lens, generalizes, and speaks about the limits of your experiences.



Hitler was an INFJ. He's the figurehead of bad people.
Pol Pot is also often categorized as an INFJ.
Political figures like Ruhollah Khomeini and Leon Trosky are also often categorized as INFJs.

Modern controversial figures who may be INFJs include Marilyn Manson and J. K. Rowling.




While I realize many people are attracted to the INFJ label because the type is categorized as "rare," this attitude feeds the ego and it's unempathetic. There are authentic, deep, philosophical, and intelligent people of ALL MBTI types. Other types are heroes, too, and not NPCs.




You need to heal from whatever damaged you and made you think "all women are born evil...." This is misogynist. It also has nothing to do with INFJs.
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I mean like I said I feel like it doesn't matter what they did, I can still sense he's a good guy deep down, even Hitler, even you. I just can tell. Misogyny is when a guy insults women because he's mad at them. I'm just stating literal facts you know how? Because I literally became an INFJ finding out how to get them and it's nothing holy. It has nothing to do with being nice or anything and I mean, it's just not a secret lol you know how your gender is. This isn't nothing to really debate about it, not trying to insult
 
John K said:
@Xoroxyz I’m afraid what you say doesn’t really make sense to me.

For example, people of INFJ type are introverts and that means we can be stressed out by too much socialising, as can any of the introverted types. We are also prone to opening up too much of ourselves to needy people and burning ourselves out emotionally as a result. These things don’t make others evil - it’s more to do with the way we instinctively relate to them, and how well we know and manage ourselves. Every type has strengths and weaknesses and so do we.

Some thoughts to play with on very little information about you …
The way you talk about women suggests you only know them from afar and maybe don’t have any easy relationships with sisters or female friends of all ages in your social circle? It’s so very hard to generalise in the way you did if you are on friendly terms with real people. Women and men are people first and their sex or gender is secondary - there are social differences of course but we are also very much alike. A problem with typecasting women is that it sets up a distorting lens within us that makes it hard to form good relationships with real folk.
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It is evil because why would you have to play mental gymnastics and "fit in" and not for the better and most of the time it's superficial. People are afraid of the truth that's what I've come to realized. And people are afraid of evil even when it's staring at them right in the face.

It's very easy to generalize in the way I did off experience I'm sorry lol I'm not here to baby nobody or to talk p.c. lol I've been in a 3 year relationship with a girl that was mainly easy. I've had tons of easy times with women. That doesn't stop the truth and if you so called have easy relationships with them it's because you're either blind or your capacity to indulge in toxicity is way over mines. I'm sorry. I have literally rejected girls recently, I've could have played the nice guy roll with them and just talk like a normal person while they're still superficial deep down inside but no .. I don't want a relationship with women to be honest. I just rather go the George Clooney route, sorry. I literally became a INFJ because I was one of the guys just like you who thought they could do no wrong until I found out their true nature so... and also the problem with the world is we hold women to too much of a high standard. Who cares about having good relationships with them? Are they helping make the world a better place? noo.. they make it harder and are weaponized so dudes like you stay lost in the sauce lol wrda bro 🤣
 
@Asa why am I just noticing the devil horned picture in ur pfp lol u kno the occult meaning to the horns so why are you playing saint tellin me I'm judging but then u lowkey prove my point unless it's just by coincidence but you don't even know who ur really talkin to I'm noticing lol I am not these dudes on here or in the world. you'll never catch a dude like me on a forum but that's why I'm poppin out and sharing my thoughts online because I feel that I want to wake people up now.. everyone is too asleep
 
This is why I feel like I'm really INFJ fr because I feel like no dude who actually understands or gets women really speaks out about how they really are because they don't got time for the backlash or they scared but you can only talk how I talk if you kno .... lol like I made a girl cry the other day because all I did was tell her about herself but I kinda went a little too far with it but she understood what I was saying enough to cry so.. u guys could huff and puff all you want lol it's not gonna change the truth. . I just wanted to point out though how even though they're possessed that I do notice the good more in INFJ women more than any others, not to say the others are bad but by default I feel are npcs I'm sorry. sometimes you have to call a spade a spade. It's not gonna be the prettiest thing but it's the truth
 
Xoroxyz said:
I don't know what it is with me. Everytime I'm deadass people think I'm trolling lol but then everytime I'm not serious ppl think I'm deadass lol this is why I'm antisocial and stay to myself smh
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Trolls come in many flavors. Sometimes they're perfectly serious. The end result is the same, that engaging with them isn't worthwhile because they have nothing constructive to share. You have repeatedly posted inflammatory things in this thread and have yet to be civil. Troll
 
hush said:
Trolls come in many flavors. Sometimes they're perfectly serious. The end result is the same, that engaging with them isn't worthwhile because they have nothing constructive to share. You have repeatedly posted inflammatory things in this thread and have yet to be civil. Troll
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I was just sharing my thoughts. I'm not here trying to rile people up lol but the thing is I actually have said something more constructive than anything I've seen on the site because it's the truth that no one wants to speak about. It's the reason why every girl you ever loved left you lol but ok
 
I used to be an INFP until understanding women turned me to an INFJ. Ever since then I knew what time it is. I take the test every year to see if I turn back to and INFP but it never happens.. They feed this illusion that girls are these angels in all the romance movies and Disney movies when we were kids when it's furthest from the truth
 
Xoroxyz said:
I was just sharing my thoughts. I'm not here trying to rile people up lol but the thing is I actually have said something more constructive than anything I've seen on the site because it's the truth that no one wants to speak about. It's the reason why every girl you ever loved left you lol but ok
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Is it because I post haunted toilets and people coating themselves in baked beans? Or the poop? It's a lot of poop. Damn, I knew the poop was too much...
 
hush said:
Is it because I post haunted toilets and people coating themselves in baked beans? Or the poop? It's a lot of poop. Damn, I knew the poop was too much...
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Lol it ain't ur fault, u playin but I'm dead serious u funny af lol u the real troll smfh
 
Xoroxyz said:
You know I've had some paranormal experiences and the "ghosts" do not look like them lol 🤣 I might punch em in the face worda bro
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Oh man I kinda need to hear your ghost stories. Like did you open your fridge and a wraith drifted out while politely handing you the ketchup?
 
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