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How i've been able to cope with this type of past hurt is see the whole picture of that significant other. Although they may have done something painful to you, it is always for a reason. To view the situation and their personal flaws allows you to piece together what must have happened to them...

Letters to a Young Poet A Gift from the Sea ...also second all of Doestoevsky's works! Everything is Illuminated Incredibly Loud & Incredibly Close

Honestly, it creeps me out and amuses me at the same time. I get frazzled and probably act awkward...this probably has something to do with the fact that I am demi-sexual as well, which only heightens the experience. The way sensors go about wooing people (aka most individuals) doesn't work on...

*Raises hand* I am another INFJ looking into the law! Just graduated last May and am working at a large corporate firm. Although I don't see myself working in such a place for a long time, I see it as probably something inevitable at least for a little while until I pay off my loans. Down the...

This is definitely something difficult i've had to deal with---honestly, it might not necessarily be just an INFJ trait but a personal trait as well. But I tend to be very picky and though I could "see" myself in a relationship with someone for some time I can usually see the limitation (the...

Yes, very relevant. At least in my case, and I believe with a lot of INFJs, we are romantics and dreamers but with a good head on our shoulders (if mature). I often listen to my heart because I trust my gut instincts, which are usually right. But often with matters of relationships and all I'm...

I've always believed that in my former life I used to belong to British nobility or the gentry. I have no idea...I almost feel a longing for the past, a wistful sweetness. I sometimes feel very anachronistic.

"A Gift From the Sea" Rilke's "Letters to a Young Poet"

You bring up interesting points---I think think that probably the most stellar definition of love is loving a person regardless of their flaws. I'm usually good at picking out both the bad and good in people before "I take the plunge" so to speak. I'm very calculating before getting into...

You seem to be very skeptical of even "nice" people's desires to help others and make them happy. I do see how you're deriving this though, from a sense that "giving" and "being nice" can make someone happy. This in some sense stems from your own personal needs and pleasures. At the same time...

Like Uberrogo's stating you seem to be saying that inherently all men's motives are self-centered...going off to the theory that human beings are inherently selfish. I've always believed, just a personal thing though, that there are those who are genuinely "nice." There are no motives behind...

To me it looks like she's very into you but afraid of letting go and falling in love. For INFJs it's a huge stake we have to play with when it comes to relationships, especially if they know that they have the potential to REALLY dig you. I personally shy away from that...until I feel mentally...

Hi Korjax, time and time again I find myself being drawn back to this forum. I'm not a consistent poster but I love reading different threads and overall marveling at how similar my experiences are (to the most nuanced detail) with so many of you folks here. Quite recently, about four months ago...

I'm attracted to guys who seem to be INFJs... or INTPs, INTJs... all IN's really. I love a deep, generous, caring, wise, interesting, passionate, deeply compassionate, mysterious, man. I always have a quintessential sense of what kind of person I'd find a dream for me, but i've yet to find that...

This is so beautiful... thanks for sharing that :) Shared it with some friends who are planning on coming out...