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    [INFJ] My friendship is a mess - help me!

    First of all, I'd like to thank you all for taking the time to read and answer my enquiry. It's incredibly appreciated. I gave myself a few days for the comments to land and write a short reply. @Deleted member 16771 No offense taken, and I appreciate you writing your lengthy reply to me. You are right; I...
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    [INFJ] My friendship is a mess - help me!

    I really would like your help on this one. This is a follow-up on this topic which unfortunately didn't end well: https://www.infjs.com/threads/is-there-hope-in-this-heartbreaking-infp-infj-lovestory This is about a girl I met one year ago and what started off as a typical INFJ-INFP meeting...
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    [INFP] Is there hope in this heartbreaking INFP-INFJ lovestory?

    It's very hard to explain if at all. She doesn't live in the same country as her boyfriend though at the moment and their relationship went stale with rarely talking (if they even talk at all) and is nothing compared to whatever we have, on an emotional level and connection. It's more...
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    [INFP] Is there hope in this heartbreaking INFP-INFJ lovestory?

    Thank you, I guess? :grin: If there was any doubt, it's gone now. There have been some developments where I have visited her for a day while I was on holiday in to the country where she lives now. Prior to meeting her we talked so much in the days before we met. Meeting her was surreal. We had...
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    [INFP] Is there hope in this heartbreaking INFP-INFJ lovestory?

    Yeah that makes sense. Although I just was happy to meet a friend who could give me a glimpse in her soul and life as well. Building rapport is perhaps a bit mechanical but I see what you mean. But yeah I have to put myself first and later I can see if we can be friends again. I owe it to...
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    [INFP] Is there hope in this heartbreaking INFP-INFJ lovestory?

    @acd also thank you (forgot to mention you!)
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    [INFP] Is there hope in this heartbreaking INFP-INFJ lovestory?

    Thanks so much for your answer (and also to others). I value all the input (and the ones that are to come). I guess it's an INFP thing but I want to be friends with her even though it will be super hard. I want to see girls as persons and friends first (yes, I'm horrible with these dating...
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    [INFP] Is there hope in this heartbreaking INFP-INFJ lovestory?

    Dear souls, This is my story and I'm looking for advice from you, whether you are an INFJ or anything else. I know it's crazy, but the girl we're talking about has been on my mind continuously for the last four weeks. I really feel like a piece of me is missing and I can't get it out of my...