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not sure how this conversation thing works here but ya would love to chat, probably msn is best

personally, it is a personal decision between just going ahead and letting things be or pushing once more to get him to show some improve or progress, if he doesn't react, i say cut him off. You are together to grow, he is basically blocking himself, you and both of you from progressing...

Ya probably the best thing to do was to open your mouth and simply confront her. Tell her just because I am black doesn't mean I go around stealing. And end it off with some of threat along the lines of how would your reputation look if people knew you were racist. I think if you mentioned...

well if it helps, go out with guy friends to try and see if you can get used to that first

As great as I think I am as a person, when I take a look at others, I wish i was more sociable, more outgoing, more athletic, richer, etc. But in general, INFJ want to constantly improve the problem that arises is usually wanting to change too much at once and in the end, we get nothing done.

I think the best advice might be one of a few things: 1. expressing it to someone who will listen 2. asking for advice, others can bring you back down to reality Going on and not expressing is probably the worst thing to do because it will just keep building up inside.

well actually the way I see it of why we avoid people is simple. Naturally we like to associate with people we have a connection with, so if we don't have a strong enough connection we tend to just ignore them. Also, we are jealous too especially when our friend which we are close with spends...

I used to be very shy and terrified of talking to strangers. I have improved a bit, but I think the trick is to put yourself in social situations, like go out with people you know in a small circle and just be yourself. See if that works and with time you will learn to be more sociable. The...

Volunteering is a pretty good idea. For someone that is shy, getting confidence worked well for me through online dating.

Also, another thing is I always want to figure out everything, so this causes me to getting way ahead of myself, being over analytical and it drives people away.

No problem amplified83. The other thing I notice about myself is that I tend to be too nice to people, you can call me a people pleaser and thats actually becoming a bad thing because I just noticed something recently that someone was being nice to me but they actually wanted to take advantage...

From what I know, I am a guy, and I do get protective of people I care about. Probably more protective of female friends and especially girlfriends, when I have one. Actually, Wyote does make a good point. Girls see you as a saviour, like their protector who will come to the rescue, which is...

I am not sure if this is I personally think about a lot of if its something INFJ's think about too. Basically, whenever I think about what will happen when we die, where will we go; I start to feel fear, sadness and even at times I think what is the point of living. After that I probably have a...

With my recent ex, she brought up that I can get mood swings out of no where and snap out of them quickly too. In fact I didn't really notice this that much until she told me. When I think back to my childhood, I think thats the place it originated because I was always reserved and never spoke...