Recent content by SilverFire

I sometimes wonder about this if I'm interested in a girl and I don't know if she's interested in me, but otherwise, no. I don't measure people by often they think about me because that doesn't matter. It only matters if they are faithful to the relationship that we've established.

Not so sure I agree with that. Thinkers can be pretty sensitive to criticism, too. "How dare you try to take apart my system that took me so long to build!" There can be a bit of pride invested in, and a great desire to preserve the system against the world. For instance, see certain scientists...

Hey look. It is stupid for people to avoid conflict. But you do know why they do, right? Dealing with conflict is a HASSLE. It's uncomfortable. To many people, it's unnecessary, and some people feel like they have a lot to lose, or fear getting hurt. Despite all that, resolving a problem is...

I do not enjoy horrible things. However, I do appreciate the funeral somberness that such can bring. I've always had a morbid/depressive bent to me, and that comes through in the kind of literature, movies, and music I like. With that said, I do not feel it helps people to pointlessly shock...

Awesome...until I came here (i am a hater magnet)

...and they're all guilty of violating the law. Every last one. If you love a country, you follow its rules. If you don't, you come here to take as many freebies as you can. This is designed to flood the ballot boxes with illegal voters who will then usher in Obama. It's got to be the most...

I think your friend is right, though, in not wanting to date anyone right now. He recognizes that he isn't in a good place, and though it hurts like eating scorpions, to really care for him means giving him the space and the time to heal. INFJs want to be understood -- and I realized from...

Well, I guess the first thing is to woman up and talk to him about it. The next thing is to see what happens after the talk. Is it something he wants to change? If so, cool. You can help. Is it something he doesn't want to change? If so, then you have figure out whether you're ok with that or...

That dude is poison. It's not because of his INFJ-ness. It's because he's morally twisted. Run for the hills!

I am very often nostalgic, but it is quite real, vivid, and often painful. The beauty of the past becomes shards of glass when relived, yet there is still this ethereal misty warmth about it that proves infinitely appealing.

People who are constant -- the ones who don't let others get in the way of their positive attitude or their dreams or their goals. I never thought up until recently how difficult that is to achieve.

Laundry. I loathe it. In fact I buy clothes so that I don't have to do laundry as often. If I ever get rich I will pay someone -- and pay them well -- to do the laundry. Also, anything involving lots of people, unless I'm doing public speaking.