Recent content by SilverFire

I sometimes wonder about this if I'm interested in a girl and I don't know if she's interested in me, but otherwise, no. I don't measure people by often they think about me because that doesn't matter. It only matters if they are faithful to the relationship that we've established.

Not so sure I agree with that. Thinkers can be pretty sensitive to criticism, too. "How dare you try to take apart my system that took me so long to build!" There can be a bit of pride invested in, and a great desire to preserve the system against the world. For instance, see certain scientists...

Hey look. It is stupid for people to avoid conflict. But you do know why they do, right? Dealing with conflict is a HASSLE. It's uncomfortable. To many people, it's unnecessary, and some people feel like they have a lot to lose, or fear getting hurt. Despite all that, resolving a problem is...

I do not enjoy horrible things. However, I do appreciate the funeral somberness that such can bring. I've always had a morbid/depressive bent to me, and that comes through in the kind of literature, movies, and music I like. With that said, I do not feel it helps people to pointlessly shock...

If it helps at all, I think anyone who has the guts to enter a contest automatically wins. I hate contests for many the same reasons -- although I've never been in the kind you describe (I don't live THAT far on the edge *laughs*). Also, the judges are going to be picking their favorites out of...

Awesome...until I came here (i am a hater magnet)

...and they're all guilty of violating the law. Every last one. If you love a country, you follow its rules. If you don't, you come here to take as many freebies as you can. This is designed to flood the ballot boxes with illegal voters who will then usher in Obama. It's got to be the most...

Pretty awesome when moderators trash your rep, huh? There's a lot more where that came from. Be prepared to read a lot more of holding people accountable for their actions.

I think your friend is right, though, in not wanting to date anyone right now. He recognizes that he isn't in a good place, and though it hurts like eating scorpions, to really care for him means giving him the space and the time to heal. INFJs want to be understood -- and I realized from...

Heya! Thanks! :)

Well, I guess the first thing is to woman up and talk to him about it. The next thing is to see what happens after the talk. Is it something he wants to change? If so, cool. You can help. Is it something he doesn't want to change? If so, then you have figure out whether you're ok with that or...

Cool. I'll see what they have. Thx!

That dude is poison. It's not because of his INFJ-ness. It's because he's morally twisted. Run for the hills!

I am very often nostalgic, but it is quite real, vivid, and often painful. The beauty of the past becomes shards of glass when relived, yet there is still this ethereal misty warmth about it that proves infinitely appealing.

People who are constant -- the ones who don't let others get in the way of their positive attitude or their dreams or their goals. I never thought up until recently how difficult that is to achieve.