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    "Nice girl" personality or stereotype

    I think "nice girls" can exhibit a lack of self respect if they are people-pleasers. I've had to learn to stand up for myself around men and not be so kind and giving in my initial interactions with them or else they seem to lose interest. If you're available at the drop of a hat to hang out...
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    Toddler left dying after hit and run..

    There is a deep rift in the moral fabric of China. :( What a disturbing video. The people don't even seem to jump at the sight of her crumpled bloody body, or stoop down to look at her.
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    Extroverts and INFJs

    Yeah, seriously. I find myself listening to other people most of the time, rather than talking. Small talk is mind numbing. My chattiness varies with my emotional state and who I'm around. I'm very guarded with my emotions, too... we only seem open. I keep negative opinions and judgements to...
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    Letter From One Percent

    I find this highly ironic considering the Occupy Wallstreet crowd in NYC is getting 5 star cuisine from world class chefs offering their services to the protestors. The protests are attention-grabbing but pointless considering their goals.
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    Like at first sight?

    I get these thoughts too, although I don't get bad vibes from people - just really strong good ones, occasionally. Happens rarely but I've not been led astray by this intuition.
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    ENFP female, INFJ male similarities and complementarity

    Glad that the not smiling thing might just be a guy thing. I've never had it happen! I don't generally try to steal glances at guys, though. It's good to know there's an NF-NF connection. He does have a girlfriend though, so he and I are just friends. Our relationship is definitely just...
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    ENFP female, INFJ male similarities and complementarity

    Hello INFJs! I joined this forum after become acquainted with an INFJ male and experiencing a connection with him. Trying to get to know more about INFJs since is still such a mystery to me, so my Ne in curious explorer mode... :) Basically we're both in the same academic grad program, and have...