Recent content by sapphiresky

Yes, sorry about my interpretation. I do admit that I have my own individual issues. I suffer from stress and anxiety. I have issues telling people "No" right off the bat. I internalize and overanalyze things to the point of exhaustion. I am a good candidate for therapy but I don't know if I...

Yeah. I was wondering about this the other day because she strikes me as a little bit narcissistic. Do INFJs tend to attract narcissists? I do agree that I think she was idealizing the "mommy" relationship and having high expectations. I didn't even mention that she has no car. Her husband is...

hahaha nah dude....I think I am done with this crap lol. I do wonder about the life story of this lady but I don't have the energy to put up with it. She can take advantage of her other mommy friends lol.

Is there a category in this forum where I am supposed to post these kinds of relationship threads? I am new to this forum so I am not aware of the rules of this forum. It seems that some people get bothered with what I post here even though I post here on rare ocassions. Are people allowed to...

I agree

HAHAHAH this made me laugh so much... Yep sadly that park is like 5 minutes from my home at a walking distance. I decided to take my child to a different park every week and take a break from that one for now.....lol

Yeah...I have thought about this several times but I am not sure if I want to stir up some drama. Something is telling me that she knows something is up. I am also unsure what I feel about that other friend either. I am not even sure if I should call them friends in the first place. Perhaps I...

Because this is a confusing situation for someone who has never been in a situation like this. It gives me relief to get confirmation that this is NOT normal behavior to the majority of people. That I am not crazy to think that I might be getting used. Because for a while I thought I was the...

She asked me for new curtains.......curtains from amazon......when you do the math buying new curtains are a huge expense.....and the funny part was that my bedroom needed curtains for months....and I saved for them and bought them weeks ago. She obviously doesn't know about that. Then she...

I understand what you are saying, but the majority of people don't like confrontation. Most people at least in the United States perceive this situation as weird, suspicious, and even rude. It's just something you will never expect when starting to get to know someone. Especially when I thought...

This is the first time someone asks me for money. Someone that I just met. I will never dare to ask someone to buy something for me.....not even my own parents and that's only if they are asking me what I want for my birthday. Like I described previously when I met this lady there were many...

Hello. I am in a weird situation with this "mommy friend" who I meet in May of this year. I met her and another lady at a local park. We have been planning playdates for our children almost weekly. I always thought she was a little bit strange but I just thought that she was probably adjusting...

Hello everyone. I am curious to know if this is normal behavior for INFJs and how to cope with it. I was frustrated because I haven’t been able to make any solid friendships in the past years. I have been attempting to meet new people, but I also like to have my own personal space. When someone...

Football is what keeps them together. I am not into sports that much. I think is interesting that a day after we meet in person she sent me a message on Facebook thanking me for hosting them and that she likes my boho-modern home decor. If she would have told me that she likes my home decor I...

Thanks. That helped a lot. Sometimes I only see the negative side of things, and I replay the same tape over and over. It's better to see what happened with a good sense of humor. I have always been fascinated with sea turtles, even before my wedding. I have turtle wall decor in different...