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Recent content by Sam

  1. Sam

    What makes an INFJ laugh?

    Hmm. The absurd, kind of dark and morbid, sarcasm, irony, wordplay, Hank Moody in Californication. I usually laugh with tears in my eyes, and I laugh a lot. I mean, many things make me laugh doesn't take much, I want people to feel comfortable around me so I'll become more up-beat around...
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    Thanks, mate. :) (@ rep)

    Thanks, mate. :) (@ rep)
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    Oh. Fuck. Unhealthy INFJness and Enneagram 4nness.

    // pointless thread. Sorry!
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    The Many Faces of INFJ

    The Academic sounded pretty right. But I just wonder how reliable this data is. *winks*
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    INFJs and attachment

    I noticed in the past that I can be quite oblivious in some ways - for example, if I'm good friends with someone, and me considering them friends takes time and effort and a special kind of bond, I'm basically their friend for life, on my part. It just doesn't happen easily and the thing I...
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    INFJ kryptonite

    Oh! In that case you must be gorgeus! *nods*
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    INFJ kryptonite

    It might be an E4 thing as well, but staying objective - realizing when you're lapsing into spiraling, endless loop of analysing everything and especially yourself is madness. Analysis to the extreme, and all the feelings that come down with it ("what did I do, what should have I done, what...
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    What qualities do you value in a friend?

    Integrity and maturity, pretty much. Deep? I guess.
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    Distinguishing INFJs

    Hehe, that was actually a rhetorical question... But I do wonder. Maddening.
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    Distinguishing INFJs

    This all sounds very interesting, I just feel like I could tick Type 3 and 4 as easily - it depends. With people, I lean to Se and Ne actually more than Fe, unless 1-1 - I feel Fe but it's not as externally expressed. Ne leaning perception, and Fi leaning judgement. Am I an INFP?
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    Distinguishing INFJs from INFPs

    How about this: INFPs values & principles are pretty unshakeable. They do not want to break nor cross their deeply felt values in any circumstances - I repeat - in any. For example: if they value honesty and don't want to lie, they won't justify telling lies - they simply won't lie. With an...
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    @rep: You likey?

    @rep: You likey?
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    INFJ's Mother's Type

    ENFJ. I think she's an enneagram 3w2. She has charisma, appeal and sophistication about her, and she always ends up in leadership roles wherever she goes. I think she's influenced me by being this model of a strong woman to me.
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    How much nice is too nice or not enough?

    There are certain boundaries I think that come in place when dealing with people: you can be nice without it taking anything out from you, but also possess a sense of self-respect to protect these boundaries. As long as niceness doesn't come with the price of self.