Recent content by Rycka

I like the way you express it, by saying ' small death '. It's a little bit sad to see, though and in my opinion that's also something that needs to be fought against. No fun living your life and feeling like an emotionally numb zombie inside, fearing vulnerability, judgement, criticism and...

I'm not sure about other INFJ's, but me personally, if I have ever ' cheated ' then this has happened simply because it wasn't communicated well enough, that we're dating. If I'm not committed and we don't talk about it, then I assume that it's just a friendly interaction with no strings...

Perception is everything, isn't it? I have a question for you: what do you think about this quote ,, With each new relationship, people tend to give less of themselves. '' ?

For me personally, I was always questioning why there are so many contradictions in my character and so many turbulent emotions. Learning about INFJ has helped me to put things into perspective and get a clearer picture into what direction I wanna move throughout life as a human being.

Sorry to hear that and thanks for sharing this story with us. From my side, I was just curious and wanted to learn about different points of view.

I don't mind, I love a good conversation. Anyways, long story short - I decided to stop talking with her. And it's quite funny, when people just jump into conclusions and consider such people to already be sexual predators or creatures of similar kind. Like I've said, nothing happened, I was...

Hello guys! Background: I have a tricky situation on my side. When I was younger, I found a friend who I could consider to be a Playboy. He's an ENFP, I'm INFJ and from him I have learned how to talk and deal with women. I have had quite a few girls on my side, but never girls with whom I'd...

Hey! :grinning: So I've been wondering how well INFJ personality and the role of a business owner mix together? Do infj's strive for such a thing, or is it something that they naturally shy away from? Personally I've tried freelancing and dropshipping so I loved the freedom aspect of...

There's truth to this, but if one has a face that nobody wants to look at, then women simply won't give a fuck even if you're successful. I have friends on both sides, the playboys and the ugly ones, so it's really sad to see how the latter gets no attention at all and how girls speak of " soul...

You think we can hold women and men on equal terms here? if ugly guys date attractive women every day as you say, it's more like an exception rather than the rule and even if that's the case, one would have to think what an ugly guy brings to the table and what age gap women he is dating...

and how often nowadays do you see others having an authentic connection? What does it even mean? Just curious, no offense.

Could you elaborate further?

Do you think an ugly but confident guy can score as well as the guy who falls into good looking bad boy archetype? No. I also think that more mature and older doesn't necessarily mean better. In most cases, it's visa versa. I don't know how you would think about it, but it would bug me the wrong...

Recently I have been thinking that most women easily fall for Chad's, but when it comes to average or below looking men not only you have to get out of your way to create an attraction, but also spend quite a bit of time showing one's value. It seems to me that the effort to return ratio is low...

Not to be mean or anything, but perhaps being physically attractive plays a huge role in why you get chosen by men bosses? Also, if that's the case, perhaps we could make an assumption that you have a more difficult time with women because they simply feel intimidated by your presence? That's at...