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    Sandy

    just me I hear you. But I have a problem with being told you need to evacuate and don't. Now you become an issue for emergency responders. That's a lot of money and risk. And a lot of people in NJ did just that, they ignored the governor. Now there's another storm and they have given up the...
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    Real man/woman

    I think, to start, both sexes as people should share qualities. These aren't talking points, but more what I think we should all work hard at as individuals. Integrity(say what you mean, mean what you say) Almost redundant, honesty, loyalty, respect, honor. There are probably some I have...
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    How MBTI Works

    Well, what you say makes sense. I think the functions, and I'm only starting to understand them, do describe an attribute. But from what I'm understanding is they are supposed to be preferences, and you are saying they aren't strong enough to you to be meaningful. So maybe somewhere in...
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    The INFJ ambiguity

    Oh Ãœber, I wasn't saying sensor are stupid. Just you.
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    The INFJ ambiguity

    Sadly, no. But I do subscribe to Gardner's theory or there being multi dimensions to intelligence. Reading with a lucid mind and letting your brain do the work alone doesn't measure much IMO. Just getting answers to questions right by itself is incomplete. Depends on what you're testing, but...
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    How MBTI Works

    Well, so you think that FE, and FI are without merit? Meaning they don't describe behaviors, and that you can't identify more toward one than the other. I'm new at this, but I have felt more accurate descriptions of behaviors and traits, either prenatal or learned, about stuff I can ID with...
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    Sandy

    No power No heat Supposed to boil water. No Internet No email No lights No cell phone AT&T sucks No gas Trees block every road, but won't drive cause can't get gas. All food has gone bad. Can't get to store. People looting houses. Houses completely leveled. Beaches completely gone...
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    misconceptions about guys/men and love

    My mother is a 60s child. Brought me up to respect others, other races, sexual orientation, and not lastly women. On the flip side, my paternal grandfather is old Italian. And my grandmother spent her life making breakfast, lunch and dinner at his beck and call. I grew up horrified at her...
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    Sandy

    NJ is lost forever. They can't rebuild what was. It will be different. Maybe better. Maybe not. But never the same. And all that remains are memories.
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    The INFJ ambiguity

    No
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    The INFJ ambiguity

    Welcome. English is really my only language, but I have been told I don't use it well. I have a ton of people around me. Yet all alone. Always at a party or dinner or somewhere. But I can spend days, and I do, alone. I adore my wife. We can be together yet by ourselves. My point is that's the...
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    Ridiculous arguments in relationships

    It sounds very healthy and codependency is never a good thing. It just read to me like more and was hoping I was wrong.
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    Ridiculous arguments in relationships

    Do you have kids? I hear that from people that have kids. I think one of the best things is to sit in a room with her. We don't have to say a word. We can read, play on our phones, sit in silence. Sometimes we are in different parts of the house. I'm busy doing what I want, but know she's...
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    What impresses you?

    Humility. Humanity, Knowing you don't know.
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    Being intuitive or using your intuition (Ne or Ni)

    That sounds like intense intuition. Not sure I ever feel it more strongly. If it's not too direct a question, can I ask why you type yourself as an S. are you more strongly an S. I guess the answer is obviously that, but still you sound strong intuitive.