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    PARANORMAL POLL

    I was 20 when that happened. The difference between ghost adventures and real life, is that well... everything on those things are staged. And they grab things from other stories to use to grab people's attention. Actually experiencing something is enough to convince even the strongest...
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    [INFJ] How can I stop thinking about someone?

    It took me almost two years to get over someone so I feel you. I really did this by realizing there is so much more to life than this person. Think about it, this person meant a lot to you but do you know how many OTHER people on the earth there are? MILLIONS. Chances are you will find a new and...
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    Why do exes pop up when you start a new relationship?

    They want what they can't have. That's assuming they know that your in a relationship - if not I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU MEAN. The moment I started dating someone new, one of my exes (who I loved with all my heart, even tried winning back multiple times ) he came back asking me to be with him...
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    INFJs and Vegetarianism

    I've been a vegetarian for almost a year, and eventually I want to make the transition to vegan. The problem is finding out all the things I can eat, finding all of the recipes, affording these new foods and recipes, and finding a place that actually SELLS the necessary food items. There is a...
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    PARANORMAL POLL

    I never believed in paranormal type things until I lived at my step mom's house. WEIRD things happened that are completely unexplained and believe me... I really did not believe in this stuff. I rolled my eyes at it, laughed, said there was no proof, said that people were all making it up until...
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    Do you feel comfortable expressing your opinions and feelings?

    I really don't think gender matters when it comes to expressing feelings, but I feel like society *can* influence certain genders to keep quiet about themselves. So it's not necessarily that they have no desire to share, but something prevents them from doing so. For instance males are told...
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    gender myths and stereotypes

    girls like pink, boys like blue
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    Old love resurfacing

    This happened to me on several occasions with one particular person. I think it's because I was in that stage where I thought the memories were still the present. I had to take some time realizing the person from my memories was not the present day version. Also, the saying "distance makes the...
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    Intimidating ENTP crush? What should I do?

    NONONO don't just ask someone out ??? I agree with the people that are saying to be careful first. Why get involved with someone if you're not absolutely sure about it? I wouldn't go after someone I was just "kinda" having feelings for or not too sure about. Maybe you just need to get to know...
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    INFJs and the Cold Shoulder

    When I get the cold shoulder I really feel anger before I feel hurt. It's so immature, rude, and just plain disrespectful. When it happens to me I really don't want to have anything to do with the person at that point and I just shove them out of my mind and try not to think about them. After...
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    INFJ shutting the door on someone

    It's hard for me to cut someone out if it's a close friend of mine and we're having problems. I've tried cutting out the same person constantly but I always end up feeling just as miserable (if not more) as I do keeping the friendship going. So I always end up trying to make up, trying to make...
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    People leave INFJs

    I will admit I've felt like everyone was dropping out of my life left and right. But it wasn't that I felt they couldn't stay, but more that they grew tired of me as a friend and as a human being. For instance... so many of my close friends have up and abandoned me over something stupid, or for...
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    Have you ever cut someone out of your life?

    My step dad and step mom started to excessively drink every night and they'd get into huge fights. It somehow drove my step dad to come into my room at night often and ramble on and on about how he thought my step mom was cheating on him, how he just wants to find love, or whatever. And he'd...
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    People say I have no emotions

    It's a shame people mistake being guarded as being emotionally detached. Society wants us to believe that being "shy" is wrong and that you NEED to open up. In every single job I've had everyone has told me I am too quiet, too shy, or they're worried about how I will succeed being so quiet. I...
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    Post Graduation Anxiety - Some Help?

    All you can do is try! We all have to start somewhere, even if it's somewhere we don't want to be at first. I had to start at many awful jobs in order to get into a job I actually wanted to be at and that paid well. Is your safety compromised when you say their reputation is 'poor'? If it is...