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    Power vs connection in relationships

    Yeah those Overbearing Noodle Knoobies!!!
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    Power vs connection in relationships

    Thanks for sharing…yeah the irony of that one scene with the chimpanzee king…nothing against chimps but like yeah and the part of you guys expressing you are strongly Yin…I think I am too…can we just learn from bonobos and love each other come on now…🍵☕️lol
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    Power vs connection in relationships

    Hmmm yeah, these replies seem to be boiling down to…authenticity and not taking everything so seriously…I remember Byron Katie telling about a woman who was terminally and one leg on her bedridden body was very swollen and Byron Katie said Ooohh…so you are just depressed because one leg is...
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    Power vs connection in relationships

    Yeah that’s the word, Running on some SCRIPT…a good barometer for how you are doing in life…asking yourself if you feel like you are following the lines of somebody else or actually speaking your truth…
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    Power vs connection in relationships

    Makes so much sense…getting on about gaslighting nd energy vampires…Yes the balance …I just yesterday came on somebody saying to never tell your partner you love them unconditionally. My first response was No Why……because if I love someone I do love them unconditionally and I rather tell them...
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    The "I" mentality of Trump

    Sometimes I realize this is the soup we all live in. I've found it insightful to read on Ainslie McLeod's young soul society and similar from Michael Teachings...whether or not you'd see these as pseudo or actually good metaphysical sources...they illustrate this mass "I" or I/You mindset.
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    Power vs connection in relationships

    Power in the traditional top down sense, not spiritual sense which essentially is kinder, inner sourced, essentially not too different from connection. So my question is, how do you relate to people or reflect on closeness especially as you grow older looking at your friendships in childhood to...
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    INFJ Loneliness

    Hi, OP I’m sorry I’m late on replying. I sometimes forget I’ve a foot in this forum, though I’m thankful to be. I relate to you very well. I could vent in the same manner. Yes, I understand girls can be very mean, I’ve had my own experiences with mean girls in middle school and it was dangerous...
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    INFJ Loneliness

    Yes the want means lack part of your post, I think so. I've realized what it is often I'm so longing for or attracted to in another person who leaves or hurts me or what have you to then go back unto myself...it's the very thing I already have or really need to grow or blossom in myself...this...
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    INFJ Loneliness

    Many people cannot believe I've not had a relationship in the last twenty years, that I've technically never been in a relationship, and now for a decade plus ongoing that I've no bosom friends in vicinity. Were I my old highschool self, then I'd care more or thought there was something...
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    Do you talk to your friends about music?

    I don't really have up to date taste in music as in the closest to hit list Junos or Grammys, or the closest I have is Adele, who I like. I wondered if I'd be understood if I tell them about how The Spice Girls were really once a thing I enjoyed in childhood. I can chant some Hawaiian hula mele...
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    Do you find music to be more meaningful with words in general or without?

    I love folk music for the reason if language sung and the oft pentatonic scale like Celtic and East Asian music. I want to ask, any intermediate or high level piano players here? I'm trying to finish the Beethoven Hammerklavier, the polonaise in D sharp minor or F sharp I can't recall...with...
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    Have you ever truly loved an ISTP?

    My first boyfriend was an ISTP and so is my father. They are great and good solid people with big hearts just to generalize a lot 😉. I realized the Se and Ti created a wall that I couldn't get through, of misunderstanding and lack of spark. We come around to getting each other's viewpoints but...
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    Dealing with bullies

    I found that a good way to forgive and let these unhappy instances go poof is the inkling that we’ve been both sexes in our past lives. If you don’t believe in past lives, this is just my personal knowing, imho. The same with men who are hard to deal with or you could ,even broaden it to...
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    Dealing with bullies

    Also, any other women here get hated on by other women without much reason for you to conclude that they hate you because you are good in some or more ways? There is a fine line I think between doing well to the best of your ability and doing well to the extent others start hating you out of...
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