Recent content by Pyrrhula

There were two (I'm female btw, and they were male). One of them was my biggest relationship yet. I think I still love him, unconditionally. What went wrong? My problems were different with each. One of them never backed my corner (always defended others) and really struggled with giving...

Haha... I obviously didn't make myself clear. The crap sex had nothing to do with the typing, although it could read that way (read it the other way). You'll notice that I haven't knowingly slept with an INFJ, so how could I comment? I hope we are good at it ;) It made sense to me anyway!

Yes, opinions can do that. For example I typed a guy as an ENFP, because I thought he was loving and fun, and he tested as ESTP! I think E/I and J/P are the easiest to guess.

Not sure what you mean? I guessed type based on his personality, not how he performed in the sack.

I was a very mystical and magical child. As an adult I'm trying to revive that imagination through art. For the last few years I've practiced meditation and enjoy reading about spirituality and consciousness. I do believe it is a science though, and there is nothing wrong with that. Oh, and I...

I only know I've slept with ENFP, ENFJ, INTJ and INFP. I voted ENFP. INTJ wasn't very good. One who was particularly crap, I suspect was either INTJ or INFJ. I don't think it has anything to do with MBTI!

But I'm asking about whether or not it's possible to fall in love the other way (slow-burn), as that is what I'm currently experiencing/struggling with :) Maybe you are right, and I'm ambivalent!

I agree that it doesn't matter, but it'd be good to know how these things can work. I think lots of people are throwing away potential long-term partners in favour of infatuation, which they believe to be an indicator of true love. Or something to do with instant gratification. I seem to...

The typical way, that I'm accustomed to, is to become madly infatuated with someone in the early stages, which gives way to love somewhere down the road. I've read about the slow-burner, but does it exist? How does it feel? Is it healthier and maybe even more reliable for longevity? I can...

No. I don't know what he wants and don't want to encourage him. Plus, I can't really see the point in friendship. It didn't end nicely.

I got a friend request on FB a couple of days ago from this INFJ guy. Why? We were never friends on FB. I haven't heard from him for 3months, since he cancelled our third date. I thought that was it. WTF?

When I was younger, I thought I was good at communicating my feelings. My INFP ex seemed to be terrible at it, which really annoyed me. He would turn silent as I tried to discuss relationship issues with him and asked him questions about how he felt. I could discuss it for hours. Weirdly...

FB seems to create problems that shouldn't really exist. I've just unfollowed everyone, except for a small handful of friends, plus the guy I'm seeing. I think it's natural to notice your guy's activity. I have noticed my guy's too. In fact, the stuff we post is quite different (his is...

There certainly seems to be a lot of chemistry between the two, from my limited experience. It has to be the Ni primary function, shared by the two types. Plus how the auxiliary Fe and Te compliment each other. The connection, for me, was immense. I could see him doing his introverted stuff...

This happens to me too. I find it difficult to keep up with conversations. It's almost like people are talking too fast and I can't take it all in. Also, I might take a bit of time to think after something is said, and often they change the subject before I get a chance to speak. That's quite...