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Recent content by Panfan

  1. Panfan

    [INFJ] Overwhelmed by Se

    :m043: Agree to this... Unfortunately introverted sensing is a shadow function to INFJ, so it’s even harder to imagine. *wink*
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    [INFJ] Overwhelmed by Se

    That’s sound very efficient! I guess I should start to take notes as well.. Nature is great >> 100% agree with you
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    [INFJ] Overwhelmed by Se

    Yeah, I’m amazed how people can perceived things differently based on their dom function. As you said, Fe less efficient in making decision. It’s frustrating when I get the nuance of the conversation, but forget what the actual things that was said. Lol But there’s some good advice there...
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    [INFJ] Overwhelmed by Se

    Greetings! I'm just wondering if anyone has ever felt overwhelmed by Se? I know it's inferior function for INFJ, but I also want to know how other types can become so good at it (and maybe learn a bit from them). As INFJ, I'm comfortable with concept and 'big picture'. But I'm soo overwhelmed...
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    How do you express your spirituality?

    I was raised in religious family so I guess spirituality comes naturally to me. I think there’s something wonderful about being connected to the higher being. This has helped me in facing many challenges in the past. It’s comforting to know that there is an existence above me who is in control...
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    Jordan Peterson

    My best guess is he is ENTJ.. Personally, I like his writing and a lot of his words resonate with me. I could say that he’s good at structuring and communicating his thoughts even during live shows, something that us INFJ often struggle with. He also doesn’t show any sign of discomfort when...
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    Hard choices

    That must be really hard for you.. :cry: I’m glad you feel better now.. I think one of the hardest choice I made is moving across the state. The situation was very difficult at that time, so it didn’t seem like a choice for me.. Leaving my loved ones was really painful. I tried to pretend...
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    Why it sucks to be an INFJ

    1. Overthinking 2. Yeah, I'm overthinking what I should write here 3. This is suck..
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    What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?

    I find it hard to trust people who always try to get on the good sides of everyone, but talk behind their backs. It makes me feel insecure that they’re doing the same to me.
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    Answer With A Question! (Part 7)

    Is trusting your gut is better than trusting your heart?
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    [INFJ] INFJ Inner Circle

    I guess people tend to mirror each other in any relationship. I found it’s easier to let my guard down when someone is being honest and sincere with me. But when someone doesn’t have time for me, I just feel the impulse to be “too busy” for them. Which may not the nicest thing to do sometimes..
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    What send shivers down your spine?

    The first thing that comes to mind is this very old movie that I watched quite a while ago.. Everything about this movie gives me a lot of creeps. And it’s supposed to be a family movie..
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    [INFJ] INFJ Inner Circle

    Wow, am I typing this.. lol So many great answers! Not sure about if we're talking about the same circle though..
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    [INFJ] INFJ Inner Circle

    I read somewhere that INFJ tend to keep things to themselves and choose only selected few to come to their inner circle. As an INFJ myself, I can totally relate to this.. But I'm just wondering if it's the same with everyone else.. So, here's the questions: 1. What personality type that you...
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    [INFJ] infjs confuse the hell out of me!

    This is interesting topic.. tbh I also get confused with myself too lol It’s easier for me to “think” what I’m feeling, rather than actually “feeling” it. Sometimes I don’t know if I’m angry or sad until I actually snapped to people.. then I’m just “Oh, actually I’m upset now” As for crying...