Recent content by pandorasbox

Hi all, I'm back, but for a different dilemma this time around. After my last thread, here, I thought everything was fine, and we were both on the same page. And we are, for the most part. But I've had a question circling in my mind again, this time trying to understand an INFJ's mind-set...

well, thanks guys :( and I slept it off, and I'm about ready to move on already (the efficiency comment is true. at least we're clear where we stand now.) yeah. I told him I need space, he's still close to me as a friend, and if anything changes and I decide to cut contact completely I'd tell...

word. :( for what it is I liked the Ni-Ni connection. never felt anything like it, so's it's a bit rough. we had almost perfect emotional-spiritual-moral/principle connections too, so rough all the way 'round. damn.

well, I got to surprisingly talk to him today, and I didn't get the answer I wanted when I said "i like you more than friends, and still do after six months from when we first met." He said he didn't have the time (since he and I were busy with multiple jobs and projects) and didn't think we...

I told him I liked his friends (infp and enfj males, go figure) and he brightened up. but at the last social gathering, there were moments that his infp friend bantered flirtatiously at me even though we were just debating - the Ni Fi and Fi Ne thing going on. I knew, and I kept my distance and...

We had some intimate moments when we were hanging out together, but he becomes aloof whenever groups are involved, and coming from an intj girl... I navigated group interaction better than him. Is the whole aloof-ness thing normal? I felt bold one day at a social gathering and went "oh I'll...

Hello all! I am back from my last post about the same INFJ male, only this time, I'm getting a lot of mixed signals from him, and would appreciate some help in deciphering whether or not I'm over-analyzing as per INTJ habits, or if it's something of concern I should bring up with him. Or even...

It's been a while since I visited this forum; and what's between my INFJ and I are becoming a lot more serious, except we're thinking about taking things slow for now. We hit a bit of an awkward stage recently, but I think we both understand the potential we have together in a long-term...

That's really good to hear. Now to find a way to grab hold of his hand in a casual way... Just a bit of update: he asked if I liked him, and I said yes. I asked him back if he likes me, and he responded immediately with a yes. I'm surprised at how straightforward everything is, but that's what...

Hi everyone, this is my first post, but I thought I'd come to this forum to seek some advice on developing what I think is a budding relationship with an INFJ male. (: I'm an INTJ female that has fallen for him, if that information helps at all. I tend to pose as an ENTJ as a business student...