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I have a close INFJ friend and I was wondering if you guys like talking on the phone? I'm not all up in her business and she isn't in mine, we can talk once every two weeks and we just continue on as if no time has passed but I realized that she is much more talkative through text (online...

I'll admit, I half want to develop the F and half don't. But how does one go about developing the F? I was always taught that 'feeling' was a bad thing. If I cried, got angry, or even yelled in happiness as a child, I was punished. Even now when I watch those movies that tug at your heart...

Aww man...so it is true what they say about INTJ's. I'm a robot. (sad face)

Hmm...disastrous how? Did you at least learn something from each one? So....not counting the ones where you weren't even a teenager yet and the ones that lasted less than a week, how many would you say you had? Because 21 is a very high number...I was thinking more of 'real' relationships...

I'm curious what you mean by know 'all' of you, did you guys share your past? childhood? problems? joys? goals? etc? I hear you on that, I've always tried to avoid friendships with females because one of us would fall for the other and make things complicated. I'm slowly trying to change...

Interesting, so what about the guys you were already close friends with before you got married? Did the friendship continue or change after your marriage? As for me, I'm not really sure how I would pursue a relationship. I don't exactly have 'game', so whenever I would gain interest in a...

lol what? My definition would be two people that are exclusive to each other making progress towards the future. I don't consider fuck buddies or casual flings to be a relationship but that's just me. Shy? You INFJ's can be a social bunch if you want. How long were you usually friends...

I'm interested in hearing anecdotes and other details of your experience. Was it difficult finding one? What age was your first relationship? How old are you now? Friends first? Your gender, who made the move? and so on. And I guess your personality type, but I assume most of the people on...

Do INFJ's really feel like they lose a part of their soul when losing friends? I'm an INTJ and I've done a good share of cutting people out of my life because logically they didn't fit in there one way or another anymore. After I cut them out, I never/rarely think of them again. They become...

Thanks to everyone for their replies. I ended up calling her, and I eventually brought up the subject of us as just friends or something more. She sees us as just friends which is ok by me. At least now I know and I don't have to overanalyze. All in all. We're going to stay good...

She knows I'm going away for a couple days. I don't want to ask her out, have her say no, and then be sad/bummed out for the trip you know? P.S are you and your INTJ still together?

Thanks for the encouragement. Well she just texted me. "Don't fall asleep through this weekends natural disaster." (She knows I tend to fall asleep everywhere, class, work, etc.) I fell asleep through New York's mini earthquake on Tuesday so she knows about that. So I guess at least...

I'm probably going to call her on Sunday and ask her to go on a date. I don't want to do it now because I'm going to Atlantic City with some friends tonight and coming back Sunday, so I don't want to be bummed out on the trip if she says no. I was thinking a simple, "So I was wondering, do...

I can be JUST friends with her if she doesn't feel the same. That's not the problem. The problem is gauging her interest and making a move. As mentioned, I've never kissed a girl so trying to go for that is like jumping from level 1 to 100. I haven't, I wouldn't even know how to bring it...

I had her take the test recently, and her MBTI is INFJ. I've never been in a relationship, I've never kissed a girl or even held a girls hand so all this is new to me. Even though I've never had a relationship, it's not as if I've never had the chance. I've just come to realize that it takes...