Recent content by musicalpyramid

You and me both buddy, I am also in early stages of dating an ESFJ and also suspect that crashing and burning may be the end result.... However as you say they are so cute, I love that whole ''fussy, neat and tidy lets do things the right way'' attitude she has - she is completely the reverse of...

Interesting ideas, Satya. I was thinking would it not require the infj individual to adopt a significantly different, even alien thought process to accomodate the taking of actions outwith the standard ''i have a reason'' mode? So, if as you say infjs are naturally geared to anticipate and...

Satya, I agree that we are at our best went we are 'doing'', but perhaps the problem is convincing ourselves that it is worthwhile? Then again, would we be in fact less effective if we somehow convinced ourselves that more things were worth doing? Is it quality of action versus quantity of...

When I strongly believe in what i am doing I am highly proactive - but this requires the opportunity for success, the ability to succeed and the likelyhood of success. When these factors are absent I'm not proactive at all. I'm never proactive for the sake of it. But like you say, Satya, I...

Yup, vocals count :-)

When I do this it is usually to imagine what I could do in a world where rules and laws had evaporated and I was simply reliant on making my own moment by moment judgements as to what was right and wrong. So revenge or making and example of someone would fall into that catagory. I often...

''Willie the Operatic Whale'' Disney animation, I cried and cried and cried aged 4 when Willie the whale (who sang Opera) was killed by the mean whaler. The bastard. I never cried watching 'Bambi' - this was much worse.

These kids from an early age are competing against each other on the basis of their physical appearance only - not withstanding clothes, dieting etc their appearance is essentially un-earned, it's not worked for. It's not like a child learning to play the violin and competing with other musical...

Can play properly - Organ, Piano, Violin A little - Guitar, Accordian Want to learn - Trumpet, Saxophone The main one for me is the piano. Generally am happyest when I play by ear. I write my own music too from time to time, tends to have a jazz/swing sound and style to it.

96 Common pattern seemed to be - I'm happy to talk to girl I like if we had some connection already, even a tenuous one eg mutual friend or introduced previously or worked in same company, - but I'm not happy to talk to a girl I like who is complete stranger, especially in front of her friends.

In a sense try to do exactly what you would hope/need someone else to do if you were the one in that situation. Be prepared to give a lot of time and emotional effort to supporting her. I agree with other posters, the fact that she has told you tells me that she doesn't want to take her own...

Pro - I would have finally met someone who talks in metaphors as much as me! And someone who thinks about future/past as much as me. Con - The person would lack self-confidence to the point of severely holding themselves back, it would annoy me. Seeing all my faults replicated pound for...

Things I like in a girl's personality/character - Kind, Loyal, Smart, Supportive, Honest, Inquisitive, Down-to-Earth Things I dont like - neurotic, bitchy, superficial, dumb, flighty, manipulative Physically, dont like too thin or too fat but otherwise it just depends on the girl.

Hello all, Would appreciate any thoughts, insights or experiences of the pros and cons of a relationship between an INFJ and an ESFJ (in this case INFJ male and ESFJ female). Many thanks