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    love is sacrifice - but to what extent is it right?

    There is the belief that in a relationship, there is no such thing as both loving equally. But you won't have to sacrifice to the extent that you feel it is such a wrong thing to do. Love does require many sacrifices though. Perhaps you could talk things through with your partner.
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    [PUG] Marriage should not exist in the USA

    Yes it would be nice to think that way won't it. But obviously something must be wrong with that since the divorce rate is so high.
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    [PUG] Marriage should not exist in the USA

    I'm sorry but the moment I saw your title I immediately agreed. I barely know what marriage in USA means anymore with almost everyone having sex after the first few dates and couples cohabiting. Marriage is thus meaningless and that is why USA has the highest divorce rate. OK I'm not saying its...
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    Ambiverts

    Yes, there is a good chance you are an ambivert. I think what you really are is an introvert but you have honed your extraverted side well. We all lead different lives and certain circumstances could prompt some introverts to adopt extraverted roles.
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    INFJ's and Leadership.

    What have you done when you've been stuck in a leadership position you didn't ask for? I'd be quite uncomfortable and squirmish initially. However, I try to warm up to the group and tasks and view it as potential to let my negligible leadership skills grow ;) How do you handle the pressures...
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    The Value Game

    Deflated. Fast food.
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    Do attractive people really have higher IQs?

    True, I heard from another source that the person is rated and there will be a consensus whether or not the person is attractive. Yes, that is one of the ongoing theories. Like i said, so many things wrong with the study. Very true. Exactly. This forum is proof that such intelligent...
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    Has Anyone Else Been Told They Are Very Logical?

    Having Fe doesn't affect logic abilities. Perhaps you just need to put aside some overwhelming feelings and concentrate. Anyway, Fe people might be more logical because we are able to understand the whole issue eg. social implications and work from there. Personally, I admire those with...
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    Lovefool?

    You caught me. Hopeless romantic here. Need to get my feet on the ground more often!
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    Suppressing aspects of personality

    I tend to suppress my truly caring nature. I'm not entirely sure why but I don't show much emotion even though I genuinely want to help and fawn over the victim.
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    Do attractive people really have higher IQs?

    http://kotaku.com/5735711/attractive-people-are-smarter-than-you-too Above's the link. My personal opinion? So many things wrong with the study eg. beauty is subjective and varies in different races and nationalities, do they take someone's natural beauty or loaded with tons of makeup so in...
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    what mood disorder are you?

    You May Be a Bit Obsessive Compulsive... Meticulous and detailed oriented, you have some irrational obsessions. Maybe it's your super neat closet or washing your hands a gazillion times. You probably know it's weird, but you just can't stop thinking about it. In fact, the...
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    Starting or Using a Journal

    Yeah I do write in journals. I have had several, on and off. Some earlier ones I have thrown away as I'm always paranoid that people will read them and anyway I find those entries immature and silly. My current journal is focused on abstract thoughts which I pen down to get a clearer idea of how...
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    If you could be another nationality . . .

    I like being a Singaporean but I'd also like being Finnish. Finland has beautiful scenery and is a stable country. To be honest, I don't really know that much about it, but I also heard it has a good education system.
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    Fake Anti Viruses!!

    They are just trying to make money with bs software. Lawyers aren't the only 'leeches'.