Recent content by lostENTP

well, according to my culture we have always stayed on the borderline of correctness and have never crossed the boundary of being "romantically involved" but the attraction is pretty obvious...is complicated And I don't base my attraction on MTBI type...in fact, I'm starting to think we both...

We didn't cheat on our spouses, we haven't cheated, we found each other and connected in many ways. Maybe we come from different cultures and have different perspectives of what means "cheat"—feeling attraction to other people while being married means you cheating? If you don't act on it, you...

An update on my situation, I´m using this to vent and try to organize my feelings, please don't judge, just read and try to open your mind. Recently we had the opportunity to be together on a business trip in which we spend many days in a large group. We weren't in principle trying to spend...

Hi all, This is a question for INFJs, I want to understand more about the way you think or process your own feelings. I'm thinking about how you handle a feeling you want to run away from or reject? such as an unrequited or impossible love for whatever reason, it's easy for you to get rid of...

A resolution would lead me to the unsolvable problem of losing something I love I’m just going to leave this here:

Well, without being an expert, I'm going to try to list the reasons why I think my crush is an INFJ: First of all, keep in mind that I am an ENFJ. I have a special gift for capturing personality and understanding and empathizing with other people's feelings. I've always been like this and...

Thanks all for your understanding and the efforts with your advice, sorry cause English is not my native language so maybe sometimes I'm not accurate or enough precise in explaining my feelings. @David I'm clearly an ENFJ, when I joined this forum I was not much into MBTI so I put ENTP by...

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It means nothing very serious, it's just that sometimes I'm a little bit dramatic, what I mean is that I feel like a victim of the crush cause it seems to come out of the blue and I can't control it but at the same time I feel guilty about it...is a complex mix of feelings... These are very...

I am a victim and an executioner, but I know that nothing will ever happen between us because we love other people too much and we would never hurt them, even so, I suffer because in some way I want to free myself from my emotions and block them, but on the other hand, I enjoy this intense...

Hi all, I talked about my situation in another thread but as it became a bit weird cause the topic diverted a lot I decided to create a new one to update my situation. In summary, I'm an ENFJ and have an intense crush on an INFJ, we are both married, I don't know his marital situation but I...

I don't have either strong ideas on this, but I have to say that, is possible to be in love with one person and then feel a strong emotional attachment to another. The point is where is the limit? when you really cross the line from just a special friendship to an emotional relationship? and...

Hi all, I really thank you all for this invaluable help. I also used this time to reflect on my feelings and I come to the conclusion that I also let my feelings flow, without controlling them. And that given this situation the best for both us and our families is to keep a strictly professional...

Thank you slant, really all of you guys are helping me a lot. Probably you are right I let my feelings flow cause there must be issues with my marriage....I also have been considering being polyamorous...what probably think is a bit stupid....but truly I sometimes have the feeling I´m in love...