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emotionally abusive parents. they still are the same, but my mom is trying to be a better communicator--which is really hard for her. my dad, no one can get through to. so... we aren't speaking currently. he sent me a mix tape in the mail, using my mom's return address. all it had was a post it...

young love was more free and open. every relationship since my first important one has sort of made me a bit more jaded and closed off... so with age came cynicism for me. unfortunately.

INTJ, ISTJ (interesting--very close though on the S vs. N) and... INFJ. guess that's why i'm here!

i thought this was going to be the MBTI :D

sure it is. there are books to read, sunsets to watch, movies to see, existentialist theories to study, things to create... and sleep to be had. i really like sleeping.

my default answer is always no. the feelings were there at one point and at some point someone will like someone again, and the balance is unequal. i don't really call an unequal situation "friendship" because it's too complicated for men and women to just be friends. i do not like staying in...

i go out of my way to communicate my feelings to them (not easy), i value their opinion, we have deep conversations, their hugs feel protective and warm, i compromise (a biggie--i'm very independent and used to getting my own way). i get the feeling of attachment, i miss them when i'm not with...

yes, definitely. because they are things like smoking and owning cats, both of which disgust me and i'm allergic to :/

no, because i spend so much time thinking about who i am and what i want from the world and i've sort of made peace with the fact that i won't be a bubbly overly-energized extrovert that i know myself *better* now. i'm usually quite reserved, most people describe me as "weird" and people that...