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Recent content by Lisabeth

  1. Lisabeth

    Does anyone have experience with an ESFP

    One is interested in me and I am wondering how the differences will play out.
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    Trouble letting myself be vulnerable?

    Yeah being vunerable is still an issue I struggle with even now at my age. I think allowing the fear and anxiety to dicatate purposely avoiding the issue has stump my growth in the matter. I think as INFJs we feel very deeply and are almost hypersensitive at all times. As well as having a good...
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    Unexplained/Unintentional Popularity??

    I get the same reaction. I think it has to do with the way I see myself as well as people and the way I react. I see myself as neither below or above, Well I guess I have some insecurities so that is present, but generally I see people all as equal. So that means I see people as a distinct...
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    My (soon to be ex) girlfriend is a whore

    I bet if you had an opportunity to be in a movie and video and had to act and grabbed the opportunity...I am quite sure that you would be offended by someone calling you a whore over their insecurity and inability to see a situation as it is. LOL on you uber sensitivity
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    Tired and unstaisfied with those I am around...seeking pen pals

    Anyone interested in pen pal communication?
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    Have you ever cut someone out of your life?

    I have cut out several people in my life, some of which I see on a regular basis. I like to think of myself as a pretty forgiving person considering my own defects and my knowlege of human frailties. I try to look at all sides of an issue and put myself into other people's shoes. I then wait to...
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    What is racism?

    I guess some people sperate themselves from others to further solidify themselves in a certain niche. Growing up there was a obvious divison in regard of housing for officers and others. My father retired as an E 9 which is the highest ranking unlisted officer, but I was too young to note the...
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    Post your Enneagram

    9 with a 1 wing
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    which is more comforting: void or afterlife?

    Neither....living in the moment and lack of fear of the unknown...
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    Clues that give you a hint that an INFJ is angry or uncomfortable...

    Silent and withdrawn lol...most of my reactions to the bad or unpleasant are avoidance, ignoring, and withdrawing. If an INFJ gives you the cold shoulder than you have done something really bad or hurtful.
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    What is racism?

    I think that I am really lucky being a military brat and being raised around the same. There was all kinds of races being mixed and so forth. I am also very lucky to be of a mixed background (Mexican mother, Scottish and Welsh father. I think being mixed allowed me to not identify with either or...
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    What is the opposite of logic?

    The opposite of logic to me is irrational and insane thought. Actually both mean the same. Whenever you perspective is marred with thoughts that obscure objective thinking than logic doesn't exists. Lets say a perspective that is based on insecurities and fears which leads to presumptions...
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    Can an INFJ exist without a soulmate?

    I did post the topic drunk on my 35th birthday....
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    Can an INFJ exist without a soulmate?

    I just took the test and it says I am type 9 (the Peacemaker) with 1 wing