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    Thanks! :)

    Thanks! :)
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    Thanks! :D

    Thanks! :D
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    How can an ISFJ and INFJ Better Communicate with One Another?

    Maybe try inviting him out someplace quieter? INFJs can get very tired if they're around people and he might want to be in a situation where he can give you his full attention. Why not go to your house and make dinner together? Try to make something you both like and you'll really get into it...
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    Fear of an INFJ

    Losing the world would be kind of scary, I think. Imagine if it just suddenly didn't exist one day - you woke up to find it gone and there was something else replacing it. Think of everything you worked so hard on getting lost and you could never get it back. Think of all the people you've met...
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    How often are you told...

    Never, but my friends/family usually tell me things. They don't elaborate on the fact they told me, they just let it happen. It's that 'silent trust' thing, maybe. I've often been told, however, that I might put people off by being too polite/shy/intense... So I must have some bad energy going...
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    INFJ's and shocking/horrific films, books and media

    I love horror films and books, especially the really, really scary ones :) I like being scared by them, because it shows just how well the director/novelist did their job. It's satisfying on their behalf. Plus, it's good fodder for writing emotional/scary scenes. I watched too many horror films...
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    Which Parent?

    I look most like my older half-sister. Which is weird, considering we're only half related. Of my parents, I think I look like a cross of the two, but not too much. I seem to have inhereted some weird genes that make me look different from them. I don't really act like either, though.
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    Kindness Advantage

    I have, but it's a conscious decision, so it's totally my own fault. If I wanted to, I could say no, but I hate making people sad or angry. I tend to forgive and forget too easily. I give some people too many chances, I know. But who knows what my life would be like if I stopped. Hmm, maybe...
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    What's in the mirror?

    There's something strange about my eyes. Not sure what it is, maybe some emotion not even I know is there. It's disconcerting so I don't like to do it. Plus, I keep expecting to see a ghost or something.
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    8.9 Earthquake Strikes Japan..Tsunami warnings..

    I saw some pictures just a few minutes ago (but we don't get live coverage here) :( It's terrible. I hope, at least, other countries can get aid there quickly.
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    Playing the Role of the Counselor and Emotional Use

    Most people will abuse the right to vent at the people who will listen. It's not just an INFJ issue - my sister (ENFP) put up with a guy whining at her for a long, long time, until she finally snapped after about two weeks and told him to stop it. I listen to my sister's problems, but never...
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    Good animes or manga

    -K-ON! is good for light entertainment. -Kobato -Clannad is very, very good. -Gankutsuou (so sad)
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    Are Platonic Relationships a Myth?

    I think it's possible, at least for some people. Maybe not everyone can be friends with the opposite sex. In my friend group, my sister and I have completely platonic relationships with all the men (except that she has a boyfriend). My other two friends act a little weird around guys, like...
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    How shy are you?

    You Are 72% Shy You are a very shy person, and it has started to impact your life in a negative way. If you can avoid human contact, you usually do. And as a result, you miss out on a lot. You should do more to be social...
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    Cold Hands-Warm Heart?

    All the women in my family have bad circulation, but none of the men. Is it because of testosterone? I'm vaguely curious.