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    What is Extraverted Feeling?

    It might be that I actually have a strong Fe. I'm just trying to figure this out myself, I haven't been interested in the functions for very long. But most of my tendencies go unnoticed because I'm so used to the process that goes inside of my head. Some of it is very automatic. So I really...
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    What is Extraverted Feeling?

    Well thank you! :)
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    What is Extraverted Feeling?

    I don't have a very strong extroverted feeling but for me, it's very much accompanied with the other functions. So it might be that I'm using Fe+Ti which means that I'm analyzing my own/others feelings or behavior, rationalizing feelings or contemplating whether I should take action according to...
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    [INFJ] Childhood for you? Please be honest with yourself and us!

    I had a magical childhood. My parents are both pretty unusual: my dad is very artistic and creative and my mom is very intuitive and has her own weird believe system. She is a nurse, very caring and loving person and uses her intuition in healing and understanding peoples needs very well. I had...
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    Personal Secrets

    Yes I do have secrets that I don't share. And one is something that is really wanting to come out to my boyfriend but I think he'll lose some of the respect for me if I shared so I don't. But it was something that happened in the past when I was really confused so I think it's not important that...
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    [INFJ] How do you cope under difficult emotions or stress?

    Wow that's cool, I might try this imagination technique next time I get too emotional. Sounds very calming. It might be typical for INFJs to use their imagination for coping with difficulties.
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    [INFJ] How do you cope under difficult emotions or stress?

    I just read somewhere in the internet that it's typical for INFJs to start using their inferior function Se when under stress. They might start analyzing facts in their environment, using their five senses more, collecting sensory data more efficiently and use this as a coping mechanism. Like...
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    What does the avatar above you make you want to do?

    Read "Le petit prince" to my boyfriend.
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    Do You Live Your Life on Autopilot?

    Very good question. My life is full of routines to make life more easier. I tend to do things over and over again and never get bored. But something that keeps me flying on my own in the moment, spontaneous and more conscious perhaps is my thinking. I think of new ideas and get creative. I see...
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    [INFJ] How do you cope under difficult emotions or stress?

    This topic probably has its own thread somewhere out there, but I'm interested about this, so here it goes. How are you under stress or under difficult emotions? How do you cope with stress, depressive thoughts or emotional pain? I tend to turn into a big baby under difficult emotions. It's...
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    Can you help me to formulate an answer to the question: What is life about?

    Life is about being conscious: using your five senses, thinking, imagining, using your memory, reflecting and understanding. You should experience. This information that you gather through your body into your brain, you should evaluate and judge. Life is about taking action based on this...
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    [INFJ] Each time you fall in love..

    I only feel romantic love and maternal love. Maternal love I feel for my family and friends, romantic love to my one and only. Types of love are similar always but as I've gotten older the feelings have been stronger and more intense. I also always think that the one I'm with I'm going to marry...
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    [INFJ] Do you put on a brave front?

    I don't give myself away to people who I don't know well or trust. I'm pretty socially awkward so putting on a brave front would be too exhausting, I probably just look little bit cold and distant. About bravery, to me even the smallest things can be scary so I have to be pretty brave everyday...
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    How long can you go without any human interaction? Or any meaningful interaction?

    A week is enough nowadays. But I desperately need my alone time. Luckily my close friends and family respect that.
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    INFJ Subtypes: Intuitive Ni-INFJs and ethical Fe-INFJs

    I am a Ni dominant. The over analyzing... wow... it's like my brain works on full steam ahead always and it can be very exhausting indeed. This is also something that my friends complain about a lot. A friend said that his mind explodes with me (in a bad way). I have a very vivid imagination too...